2020年9月19日 星期六

The Pandemic is Crushing Women’s Careers On A Global Scale

From Australia to Germany, they’re bearing the brunt of domestic work.
A roundup of new guidance and stories from NYT Parenting.
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Lest you think that the pandemic is only disproportionately destroying the careers of American mothers, we have some international info for you!

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Megumi Mikawa quit her part-time clerical job in Nishinomiya, Japan, in July because she couldn’t do her job remotely and care for her 7-year-old daughter simultaneously. In a new piece from the Times’ international desk, Motoko Rich and Hisako Ueno describe the way Japan’s departing Prime Minister Shinzo Abe’s promises to create policies to help women like Mikawa have fallen short. Working mothers are still struggling with “overwhelming family responsibilities” and a society that does not support them, a problem only exacerbated by the shutdown.

And it’s not just Japan. There’s evidence from many other countries that moms are doing more child care and housework than dads are, and their work life is suffering for it.

A third of Canadian women have considered quitting their jobs to manage family responsibilities, compared with fewer than 20 percent of men. Women in Germany and the U.K. who work from home are spending “significantly more time home-schooling and caring for children” than men are, according to a working paper from the Institute for New Economic Thinking at Cambridge University. Australian women? They are in the same leaky boat, doing four hours of extra domestic work a day, compared with men’s two hours.

Delving into the void of national policy solutions stateside, Claire Cain Miller reports that a handful of American companies are stepping in to offer some working parents additional benefits, like increased flexibility and in some unusually lucky cases, child care stipends.

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On the school front this week, Hallie Levine has an article about the many ways schools have failed special needs children during the pandemic. Farah Miller, the audience editor for NYT Parenting, has distance-learning advice from home-schooling parents. Virginia Sole-Smith has tips for how to keep your homebound kids from snacking all day long.

Holly Burns has a lovely and ultimately hopeful essay about what it was like to get diagnosed with cancer five months after giving birth to her second child. She had to let go of her previous perfectionism. “You will never catch me referring to my cancer as a ‘journey,’ although I do sometimes think of the souvenirs I’ve brought back: gratitude, perspective, a renewed appreciation for the body that betrayed me briefly and then carried me through,” Holly writes.

Finally, we have a piece from Christina Caron, NYT Parenting’s reporter, on how to help parents who cannot meet their children’s basic needs. “Nearly one in eight households doesn’t have enough to eat,” Christina notes, and now natural disasters, from wildfires to hurricanes, are displacing thousands of families across the country. If you have the means, please donate.

Thanks for reading.

— Jessica Grose, lead editor, NYT Parenting

THIS WEEK IN NYT PARENTING

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How to Tame Your Snack Monster

The pandemic has disrupted kids’ normal snack habits. Here are small ways to bring back a flexible eating schedule.

By Virginia Sole-Smith

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Patrick T. Fallon for The New York Times

As School Returns, Kids With Special Needs Are Left Behind

For special-needs students, trying to return to the classroom, or just staying at home, presents a new set of challenges.

By Hallie Levine

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Noriko Hayashi for The New York Times

Shinzo Abe Vowed Japan Would Help Women ‘Shine.’ They’re Still Waiting.

Female workers remain largely shut out of management jobs, and many take part-time work because of overwhelming family responsibilities, despite policies that Mr. Abe said would elevate their standing in society.

By Motoko Rich and Hisako Ueno

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Private Tutors, Pop-Up Schools or Nothing at All: How Employers Are Helping Parents

Benefits depend on where people work, and the kind of job they have, a new survey finds, highlighting disparities that predate the pandemic.

By Claire Cain Miller

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Keith Negley

How to Help Parents Who Are Struggling to Provide for Their Kids

The pandemic has exacerbated the inequalities that already existed. These organizations are bridging the gap.

By Christina Caron

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Marta Monteiro

How Postpartum Breast Cancer Changed My Parenting Plans

Looking after two small kids while going through chemotherapy is the hardest thing I’ve ever done.

By Holly Burns

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Advice from Home-Schooling Parents for Remote Learning

‘The most wonderful thing is that you’re home with your kids all the time. And the worst thing is that you’re home, with your kids, all the time.’

By Farah Miller

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Tiny Victories

Parenting can be a grind. Let’s celebrate the tiny victories.

After several months of battling our 1-year-old to sit in his high chair, it finally dawned on us to place finger foods on the tray first. Now he happily slides right in as soon as he sees food — no more kicking, screaming, or flailing limbs. — Jen Bienvenu, Little Rock, Ark.

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2020年9月18日 星期五

The Daily: Life Inside a Quarantine Dorm

How one college student fought Covid-19 in isolation — with her mother on FaceTime.
The University of Alabama campus in Tuscaloosa.Vasha Hunt/Associated Press

Listen to Wednesday’s episode: “Quarantine on a College Campus

What’s it like for students who head off to college for in-person instruction this semester, only to get the coronavirus?

That’s the experience the producers Rachelle Bonja and Eric Krupke wanted to share with listeners. So they called me last week to ask about a story I had just written on how universities are trying to control Covid-19 outbreaks by moving students with infections into dedicated campus isolation dorms.

My assignment: To find one undergrad whose experience could encapsulate the lonely and stressful campus isolation treatment that thousands of sick students across the country are undergoing at their schools.

Zoie Terry, a 19-year-old sophomore at the University of Alabama in Tuscaloosa, whom I had already interviewed about quarantine dorms, agreed to take us through her ordeal in detail.

In the episode, we followed Zoie as she returned to campus and ended up coming down with the coronavirus even before classes started. She had to move to a campus isolation unit, a virtually empty dorm building, where, she told us, she felt cut off from college and from the rest of the world.

But that was not all. Zoie told us about how her mother, Lynn Terry, a former neonatal I.C.U. nurse, had played an extraordinary role in helping her through the isolation experience. So I decided to interview Lynn as well.

It turned out that Zoie’s mom Lynn was equally — if not more — anxious than Zoie. She said she was shocked that there was no university staff on site in the isolation dorm to monitor sick students’ symptoms. So Lynn decided to step in, watching Zoie sleep every night over a livestream FaceTime feed and monitoring her breathing.

By the time I interviewed Lynn, I had already spoken with about two dozen students about their isolation treatment at different universities. And I thought I had a handle on their experiences.

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But as I listened to Zoie’s mom, I realized that I had underestimated the anxiety that having a sick child on campus can cause families — not to mention the added stress of worrying that universities are not sufficiently taking care of them.

Lynn, who is also a poet, was so troubled by her daughter’s campus isolation experience that she shared a poem she wrote about it on Twitter. She also read some of her poetry for us in the interview. Take a listen.

Talk to Natasha on Twitter: @natashanyt.

‘A cascade of crises piling up on the West’

A fire blazing along a road in Molalla, Oregon.via Reuters

A note from Jack Healy, our guest on Tuesday’s episode, “A Deadly Tinderbox”:

When I landed in Portland and walked outside into a steel-colored haze to cover the wildfires tearing across the length of the state, I knew that my face mask wasn’t going to help me anymore.

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The surgical masks we’ve all gotten accustomed to wearing during the pandemic are useless against the fine particulate matter being belched out by this year’s record-breaking fires. I needed an N95 mask to filter the irritants swirling through the air from all those burning trees, homes, insulation, car seats, plastic backyard sets and every other piece of combustible material in the path of the fires.

I didn’t have a proper mask to screen out the contaminants from the fires, and as I worked my way across Oregon, I noticed that neither did most of the firefighters and residents I interviewed, even the ones directly in the path of the fire, standing directly in air that was literally too toxic for standard air-quality monitors to gauge.

I could feel the ash and smoke pulsing inside my lungs as I held my recorder up to talk to evacuees in the little rural town of Molalla, about an hour south of Portland. I could see firefighters’ eyes watering and hear them coughing as they trudged into an elementary school to grab dinner and head back out to the fire lines.

When you’re a reporter covering a crisis, you are always trying to balance the bigger picture with the action unfolding directly in front of you. In this case, there was a lot to contextualize.

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The fires I witnessed were part of a cascade of crises piling up on the West — with climate change and the coronavirus compounding the out-of-control blazes’ toll.

In the middle of a pandemic, evacuees are being forced into the close quarters of emergency shelter, making people with respiratory problems particularly vulnerable to both these toxic plumes and the virus. And in the long term, climate change will make these mega-fire seasons worse and worse, forcing cities and states to confront questions about whether it is safe to allow homes to be built in fire-prone areas and whether they are doing enough to mitigate the risk to residents and firefighters.

But these fires, burning through some deeply conservative corners of Oregon, are also fueling the flames of the country’s crisis of political polarization. In these counties, climate change is still viewed with skepticism, and the fires are scorching farm fields with big Trump-Pence signs in the yards. While many residents did see these fires as a harbinger of a transforming climate, some people saw them as a freak one-off, the product of an aberrant windstorm, a burn unlike anything they’d seen in decades.

“We’re Republicans up in those mountains,” Lee Reagan told me, a few days after the trailer where he had been living burned down. His wife, Trish, said she was leaning into her faith. “I know God’s going to provide. I don’t know how yet.”

Talk to Jack on Twitter: @jackhealyNYT.

On The Daily this week

Monday: Under President Trump, Immigration and Customs Enforcement has seen its powers expanded. We speak to two filmmakers who were granted rare access to the agency.

Tuesday: The scale of Oregon’s wildfires is dizzying — millions of acres burned and thousands of people have been displaced. Jack Healy speaks to those living in the fires’ path.

Wednesday: I just sat there and started crying.” We hear from Zoie Terry, a student at the University of Alabama, about her experience of being placed in an isolation dorm by her college after testing positive for the coronavirus.

Thursday: On the Greek island of Lesbos, a makeshift city of tents and containers housed thousands of asylum seekers who had fled conflict and hardship. This month it burned down. Matina Stevis-Gridneff on the European refugee crisis and the blaze at Moria camp.

Friday: Our producer Lisa Chow spoke to one kindergarten teacher in New York City about the city’s messy return to school, and the threats reopening poses to her immunocompromised daughter.

That’s it for The Daily newsletter. See you next week.

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