2020年11月2日 星期一

On Tech: Stopping online vitriol at the roots

With the election upon us, we’re awash in misleading and angry information. Here’s what we can do.

Stopping online vitriol at the roots

Leif Gann-Matzen

America, it’s one day before a pivotal election, and we’re awash in a lot of garbage information and online vitriol. It comes from strangers on the internet, scammers in our text messages, disreputable news organizations and even our friends and family.

Whitney Phillips, an assistant professor in the department of communication and rhetorical studies at Syracuse University and an author on polluted information, says that all of this is making our brains go haywire.

With the U.S. election ginning up misleading information and the nonstop political discussions online wearing many of us out, I spoke to her about how we can individually and collectively fight back. Here are edited excerpts from our discussion:

When our brains are overloaded, and we’re confronted constantly with upsetting or confusing information, it sends us into a state in which we’re less capable of processing information. We say things we probably shouldn’t. People get retweet happy. It’s not productive, even when people have good intentions and think they’re helping.

How do we stop that process?

I’ve been researching how mindfulness meditation processes can help us navigate this information hellscape. When you see or read something that triggers that emotional reaction, take a moment to breathe and try to establish some emotional space. It doesn’t mean you shouldn’t say the critical thing you’re thinking, but you should first reflect on the most constructive thing to do next.

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But we don’t tend to think that we’re the ones acting irresponsibly or irrationally. We think the people who disagree with us are irrational and irresponsible.

Most people think if they’re not setting out to do damage or don’t have hate in their hearts, then they don’t have to consider what they do. But even if we aren’t vicious ourselves, we’re still fundamentally a part of what information spreads and how.

We all affect the ecology around us. Bad actors like high-profile influencers can scar the land, but everyone else does, too. The more information pollution there is in the landscape, the less functional our democracy is. If you feel that everything is terrible and everyone lies, then people don’t want to engage in civic discourse.

This imposes a lot of personal responsibility on a problem that is much bigger than us as individuals.

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Yes, individual solutions are not enough. We all can make better choices, but that means nothing if we’re not also thinking about structural, systemic reasons that we’re forced to confront bad information in the first place.

What are those structural forces? What can be done to make the information environment better at the structural level?

For us to understand how bad information travels we have to think about all the forces that contributed to it — decisions made by the internet platforms, broader capitalist forces, local and national influences. And it includes you. All of them feed into each other.

Part of the problem is that people haven’t understood how information works or recommendation algorithms of social media companies that influence why we see what we do online. If people understand, they can imagine a different world and they can fight to change the system.

I’m tempted to unplug the internet and go live in a cave. Should I?

We need to find a way to balance between evacuating from the hurricane and running toward the hurricane. If we only evacuate, we’re not doing our part as citizens, and we force people on the informational front lines to bear that burden. If we only run toward the storm, we’ll burn out.

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Beware of the fake meme

As Whitney Phillips said, all of us have a role to play in reducing the spread of garbage information. Brian X. Chen, a consumer technology columnist for The New York Times, talks us through how to avoid the particularly nefarious false or misleading meme:

Misinformation comes in many forms, but one big culprit to look out for this election season is the meme, which is typically a photo or screenshot with text superimposed over it.

Memes are dangerous because it takes only a few seconds for someone to create one and share it on social media. And it’s easy for images to be doctored and for quotes to be ripped out of context.

So think twice before you re-share a meme — and when in doubt, check the source. A quick way to do that is by looking at the origins of an image by using the reverse image search tool on Google.

Here’s how: On Google.com, click Images in the right hand corner of the page and upload the photo or paste the web address of the photo into the search bar. That will show where else the image has appeared on the web. This can help you verify whether the one you have seen has been manipulated.

Beyond that, keep these three questions in mind when you’re scrolling through news articles and social media posts related to the election:

  • Who is behind the information?
  • What is the evidence?
  • What do other sources say?

“The No. 1 rule is to slow down, pause and ask yourself, ‘Am I sure enough about this that I should share it?’” Peter Adams, a senior vice president at the News Literacy Project, a media education nonprofit, told me. “If everybody did that, we’d see a dramatic reduction of misinformation online.”

Before we go …

  • Holding back the misinformation tide: My colleagues write about what Facebook, Twitter and YouTube are doing during and after Election Day — like banning political ads or blaring that no presidential winner had been chosen until results are verified — to clamp down on election-related falsehoods and highlight accurate and helpful information.
  • Counterpoint: Fears about misinformation are overblown: Slate writes that while false or misleading information may entrench existing political and social divides, there’s not much evidence that it sways voters’ attitudes or behaviors. Instead, it states that people’s beliefs and choices at the polls are largely shaped by their social identities around race and class, gender, geographic location and religion.
  • Career development in 60-second video bites: Career coaches are offering advice about writing résumés, finding a job and more on TikTok. It’s a low-cost, accessible alternative to what’s often expensive consulting services, Yasemin Craggs Mersinoglu writes for The Times.

Hugs to this

Newborns in the intensive care unit at the Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia were dressed up in Halloween costumes as Apollo Creed from the “Rocky” movies, a Subway sandwich and a little pig in a blanket. The hospital said it organized this to give the families a moment of normalcy.

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2020年10月31日 星期六

Creepy Kids and Changing the Clocks: The Week in Parenting

Happy Halloween … I guess?
A roundup of new guidance and stories from NYT Parenting.
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This week, NYT Parenting reporter Christina Caron explored a burning spooky-season question: Why are our children so darn creepy? She talked to parents whose kids told them things like, “I wouldn’t sleep in your bedroom if I were you,” because “skeleton men” haunted their creaky old house. Christina also talked to psychologists who explained that our terrifying children are developmentally normal. “It’s a way of them expressing their fears,” Sandra Russ, a child psychologist, said. “Adults talk it out; children play it out.”

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We asked readers for stories of their children being extremely creepy, and boy did you all deliver. Here’s a sampling:

My 2-year-old sometimes looks out the window into the backyard and says, “I know she’s out there.” When we asked who “she” is, he just ignores us. This has happened multiple times. —Rachel Wynia, Greenville, S.C.

When my son Milo was 3, he started talking about a being named Ifigowa who came to visit him sometimes. Ifigowa lived far away and wasn’t a kid or an adult, but he had a yellow face and black eyes. This went on for months — we’d hear Milo chatting to him when he played with toys. He didn’t seem scared. One day I asked him who Ifigowa was and, very casually, Milo said, “Oh, he’s just my master.” — Natalie Ponte, Weston, Conn.

Went to the pumpkin patch and my 5-year-old exclaims upon entering, “This looks like a good place to set a fire!” — Natalie Lambert, Fontana, Calif.

Do you have sinister kid stories of your own? Share them in the comments.

Also on the Halloween front: Dani Blum has advice for how to trick-or-treat safely and Kimberly Rex has an essay about what it’s like to be a medically high-risk mom forced to make agonizing decisions between your own health and your child’s crushing disappointment.

We also have a couple of pieces about education this week, including a feature from Amelia Nierenberg about how schools across the country are using outdoor space to expand their classrooms, and some advice from Lisa Damour, our adolescence columnist, for parents whose teens are losing motivation during this bizarre school year.

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Adding to the creepiness of Halloween, a full moon will appear Saturday. Nicholas St. Fleur is here with a guide to stargazing with your kids, including this true tidbit your children will love: “Uranus does smell like farts.”

It’s also the end of daylight saving time. We have expert guidance from Craig Canapari, the director of the pediatric sleep center at Yale-New Haven Hospital, on how to prep your little ones for the time change this weekend, without bedtime going completely off the rails.

Finally, as if anyone could forget, Tuesday Nov. 3 is Election Day. Melinda Wenner Moyer has advice on how to talk to your kids about election stress.

Thanks for reading.

— Jessica Grose, columnist, NYT Parenting

THIS WEEK IN NYT PARENTING

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Janik Söllner

Forget Halloween. Children Are Frightening Year-Round.

Why little kids have a special ability to creep out their parents.

By Christina Caron

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Trick-or-Treating This Year? Here’s How

Depending on the incidence of coronavirus in your community, it may be safe to trick-or-treat in a modified way.

By Dani Blum

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Sonia Pulido

For a High Risk-Mom, Halloween Feels Extra Tricky

Another pandemic holiday means another impossible decision between my health and my children’s happiness.

By Kimberly Rex

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Andrea Morales for The New York Times

Classrooms Without Walls, and Hopefully Covid

To combat the coronavirus, schools across America moved students outdoors. Here’s a look at four new learning environments.

By Amelia Nierenberg

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Giacomo Bagnara

How to Prepare Babies and Kids for the End of Daylight Saving Time

For parents of small children, ‘falling back’ doesn’t mean an extra hour in bed. But the right plan can help ease the change.

By Craig Canapari, M.D.

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Fran Caballero

Adolescence

How to Do School When Motivation Has Gone Missing

Here’s what teenagers can do to equip themselves to move forward during this difficult and frustrating time.

By Lisa Damour

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Jon Han

How To See the Halloween Blue Moon (and Uranus!) With Your Kids

“The Uranus jokes never end,” an astronomer said.

By Nicholas St. Fleur

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Giulia Sagramola

How to Talk About the Election With Your Kids

Even if you’re stressed.

By Melinda Wenner Moyer

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Tiny Victories

Parenting can be a grind. Let’s celebrate the tiny victories.

I discovered that my 4-year-old will practice writing their letters without complaining if I put on Halloween-themed music to set the mood. No whining, complaining or bargaining about “school time” today! Nicole Rogers, Madison, Wisconsin

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