2020年12月5日 星期六

The 25 Best Children’s Books of 2020

Family book club, anyone?
A roundup of new guidance and stories from NYT Parenting.
Golden Cosmos

My tiny victory this week was convincing my older daughter to read “From the Mixed-Up Files of Mrs. Basil E. Frankweiler” with me. She tends to balk at anything suggested by her mother even though she enjoys reading. But when I began to describe the story of Claudia, the girl who runs away from home and hides in the Metropolitan Museum of Art, bathing in fountains and sleeping in ancient, enormous, stately beds, my kid’s interest was piqued enough to suppress her instinctive eye rolls.

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I hope it’s the beginning of a little winter book club for the two of us, and I am so glad to see the excellent selections in the Times’s 25 Best Children’s Books of 2020. I think my third-grader would love “Ways to Make Sunshine” by Renée Watson. According to the review: “Like Beverly Cleary’s Ramona Quimby, who inspired this heart-wrenching yet delightful new series, the Black fourth grader Ryan Hart is a bright, imaginative girl who specializes in ‘making a way out of no way.’”

On the school front, Eliza Shapiro and Kate Taylor explore why some districts are bringing younger children back to in-person learning first. Gail Cornwall and Kelly Glass look into a painful phenomenon that has come to light during the pandemic: bias and discrimination becoming visible to parents due to remote learning. When children and families experience racism this way, the fallout impacts targets and bystanders alike.

Also this week, Kate Rope has tips for how to get your kids to play independently. Lisa Damour has advice for making sure your teens are using their downtime in ways that are psychologically healthy for them. And Meg St-Esprit has a lovely essay about her father helping her children through the pandemic by painting with them. Meg worries about her toddler’s anxiety and prays that “a memory of painting with her Pap is stronger than those of strangers looking down at her with masks covering their smiles.”

My last column of the year will be about your fantasy solo vacation. If money were no object, and the pandemic miraculously ended tomorrow, where would you go? What would you do without your kids bursting through the door every 15 minutes? Tell me all about it.

Thanks for reading!

— Jessica Grose, columnist, NYT Parenting

P.S. We also want to hear about the Tiny Victories you’ve had this year. This week, we’re looking for wins from working parents. You can email them to us here.

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Tiny Victories

Parenting can be a grind. Let’s celebrate the tiny victories.

After what has felt like months of cajoling, pleading, bargaining, bribing, threatening and of course yelling and crying about getting my 3-year-old to wear his coat, he put it on by himself without any prompting. — Katherine Smith, Tacoma, Wash.

If you want a chance to get your Tiny Victory published, find us on Instagram @NYTparenting and use the hashtag #tinyvictories; email us; or enter your Tiny Victory at the bottom of this page. Include your full name and location. Tiny Victories may be edited for clarity and style. Your name, location and comments may be published, but your contact information will not. By submitting to us, you agree that you have read, understand and accept the Reader Submission Terms in relation to all of the content and other information you send to us.

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2020年12月4日 星期五

The Daily: Becoming a Part of the Story

How our day at the food pantry hit close to home. Plus, your questions about vaccine distribution, answered.

Hey, hey everybody — Happy Friday. Our team is on the hunt for new things to watch this weekend, having ripped through “The Queen’s Gambit" and “The Undoing” during our days off for Thanksgiving, so email us any recommendations you’ve got!

After resurfacing from our carbo-induced couch comas, here’s what we covered on the show this week:

If you’re looking for a weekend binge, our Podcast Club recommends “Tom Brown’s Body,” a true-crime series about the mysterious disappearance of one teenage boy in Texas. And for a little delight, here’s a video of the host Michael Barbaro responding to Sho Shibuya’s artwork of The Daily.

A reporter’s diary from a food pantry

A woman and her daughter on their way to a food bank in New York City. They were featured in a story written by Nikita Stewart in the fall.Todd Heisler/The New York Times

In last Wednesday’s episode, Nikita Stewart, who covers social services for The New York Times, took us through a day at a food pantry in Brooklyn. She introduced us to some of the food bank’s many clients: an unemployed single mother with a baby on the way, a teenage boy whose parents had been laid off from work and a woman hoping to collect healthy food for her children.

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Moved by the familiarity of their experiences, Nikita decided to join the chorus of diverse voices by sharing her own story in the episode:

By Nikita Stewart

I enjoy the anonymity of journalism. We write the story. We report the story. We are not the story. But I’m a human being with feelings and experiences that inform my reporting. My emotions and memories of the way my family went in and out of poverty spilled over in a recent episode of The Daily.

On a Friday in September, I stood outside a food pantry operated by Council of Peoples Organization, or COPO, with the producers Stella Tan and Annie Brown. The line for food stretched around the block in Midwood, Brooklyn, and people had positioned carts on the ground overnight to save their places in line.

I had seen lines like that before. I’d spoken in the past to plenty of people who use pantries. But that day, we met a woman who told us it was easier to be in the line because she was wearing a mask, and no one would recognize her. She said she was also comforted by the length of the line — evidence she was not alone.

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Turning away, I lost it right there, happy to have been wearing glasses to hide the tears welling in my eyes.

Later, as I recounted the day with Stella and Austin Mitchell, another producer, I offhandedly talked about my experience with food insecurity as a child. They asked me, though not wanting to push, if I would be willing to share my thoughts with listeners.

I was torn. As I said, I don’t like to make myself the story. But then I remembered the time I’d spent with a troop of Girl Scouts. For more than a year, I worked on a book about Troop 6000, formed in a homeless shelter in Queens. I asked the Scouts, their troop leaders and their parents to share intimate details about themselves at the most difficult times in their lives. I also watched girls evolve from being ashamed about their homelessness to openly explaining the obstacles and injustices of poverty.

Couldn’t I, shouldn’t I, do the same?

Ultimately, I decided to share my stories of food stamps, free lunch and food insecurity. As I said in the episode, if we all keep this secret of poverty, past or present, it creates a stigma where there shouldn’t be one. If we talk openly, we can do something about it.

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Answering your questions about the vaccine rollout

Two companies, Pfizer and Moderna, have estimated they will have 45 million doses of the coronavirus vaccine, or enough to vaccinate 22.5 million Americans, by January.Bebeto Matthews/Associated Press

Many of you wrote in with questions after Monday’s episode on vaccine distribution. So we decided to check back in with Carl Zimmer, a Times science reporter whom you may remember from our kids’ episode on the coronavirus. In that episode, he offered answers to many of your concerns. Below, he does it again:

Q: How long is vaccine-induced immunity to the coronavirus expected to last?

Carl: We don’t know yet because this disease is still so new. People who have recovered from Covid-19 appear to keep having a strong immune response against the virus months later, suggesting immunity might last years. Vaccine immunity would most likely do the same. So we might need just one vaccination, we might need a booster later or we might need seasonal shots as we do for the flu. We just don’t know which yet.

Q: What’s the status of vaccines being developed outside the U.S.?

Carl: The New York Times’s coronavirus vaccine tracker has all of the information we know of about vaccine projects worldwide. There are 58 vaccines in clinical trials around the world, in countries including Thailand, Italy, India, Japan and Australia. China alone has five late-stage clinical trials, some of which should be delivering efficacy data soon.

Q: To what extent will children be vaccinated? Have they been included in any clinical trials?

Carl: Trials for children are beginning. Pfizer has started one for kids as young as 12, and other companies are moving to start their own. They should take a few months to deliver results.

Q: If you’ve already had Covid-19, do you need the vaccine? Where does this group rank in the distribution timetable?

Carl: Those are great questions. Government health officials will have to make a decision about those issues. Clinical trials did not exclude people who already had the virus, so researchers will be able to look at their outcomes to see if it’s safe and effective in them, too.

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