2021年2月13日 星期六

Toys You Want to Hurl Into Space!

An unofficial ranking of the 10 most annoying playthings in your house.
A roundup of new guidance and stories from NYT Parenting.
Golden Cosmos

When you have a baby in the United States, a specific talking push walker with a casino's worth of blinking buttons and moving parts will appear in your house as if by magic, and it will haunt your dreams for the rest of your days. This walker has not darkened our doorstep for at least two years, but I still remember every word of its theme song: "Welcome to our learning farm / We have lots to show you / Shapes and colors, music too / There's so much to do!"

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I hadn't thought about this deeply irritating jingle for a while, until I read Jessica Delfino's hilarious piece ranking the most annoying kids' toys. Jessica includes two of my personal nemeses, Play-Doh and glitter, but I would like to add the Moana microphone that plays "How Far I'll Go" endlessly. I wish I could hurl it into the ocean with Maui's giant fishhook.

Also this week, Paul Underwood has a charming piece about what improvisational comedy can teach us about parenting. Jancee Dunn asks astronauts and veterans of enclosed spaces like those in submarines and the Biosphere about what couples in 2021 can learn about romance when we are trapped inside with our loved ones for prolonged periods of time. (Happy Valentine's Day, I guess!)

If you have kids who love history, Alexis Soloski has recommendations for how to make this Presidents' Day meaningful. Danna Lorch reminds us mothers and fathers that neglecting ourselves does not make us better parents. And Claire Cain Miller, Margot Sanger-Katz and Kevin Quealy ask 175 pediatric disease experts if it is safe to open schools. These specialists in children's public health "largely agreed that it was safe enough for schools to be open to elementary students for full-time and in-person instruction now."

Finally, some of our colleagues are looking to talk with you about how the pandemic has reshaped your most deeply held values, and how you live them. How have you wrestled your way through this transformation? Tell us here.

Thanks for reading!

— Jessica Grose, columnist, NYT Parenting

THIS WEEK IN NYT PARENTING

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Tim Lahan

An Unofficial Ranking of the 10 Most Annoying Kids' Toys

"A barn? A keyboard? A phone? What are you?"

By Jessica Delfino

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Tyler Comrie

Yes, and … Clean Your Room

Improv comedy can help us be more patient and attentive with our kids, and help them be more resilient and open with us.

By Paul L. Underwood

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Taylor Glascock for The New York Times

We Asked 175 Pediatric Disease Experts if It Was Safe Enough to Open School

In many places, the debates over reopening are fraught. But in a survey, experts broadly agreed that elementary schools didn't need vaccines to open safely.

By Claire Cain Miller, Margot Sanger-Katz and Kevin Quealy

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Loris Lora

Neglecting Yourself Doesn't Make You a Better Mother

Showering and eating regularly can be a form of self-care.

By Danna Lorch

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Glenn Castellano/New-York Historical Society

Presidents' Day: 5 Ways to Make It Meaningful This Year

With kids off from school, here are suggestions for delving into our nation's complex history with virtual museum visits, D.I.Y. tours and fun movies (Lincoln as a vampire slayer?).

By Alexis Soloski

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Nicolás Ortega

This Valentine's Day, Take Love Lessons From the Astronauts

Accept your 'full reality,' keep little rituals alive and remember you're still — yes, still — in it together.

By Jancee Dunn

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Tiny Victories

Parenting can be a grind. Let's celebrate the tiny victories.

"Dance Party Cleanup" has made picking up much more enjoyable (and effective), but I upped the ante this week and offered a bonus song choice to whoever picked up the most. My 5-year-old made sure she "won" … I think I won. — Leslie Curren, Byfield, Mass.

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2021年2月12日 星期五

The Daily: Giving Our Shows a Name

Michael Barbaro shares how we title each episode. Plus, a few listening recommendations.

Hi everyone, happy Friday! This week, when not working on the show, our team was sharing the latest viral videos (the lawyer cat, the chaotic parish council meeting, the "Framing Britney Spears" documentary), playing Amble and ordering Girl Scout cookies. We'd love to know what you were doing this week while listening to The Daily.

This week in the newsletter, we have a letter from host Michael Barbaro and a few listening recommendations from our narrated articles team. Thanks for reading, and see you next week!

Choosing a title for The Daily… every day

Michael Barbaro preparing to record The Daily's live election show.Sara Krulwich/The New York Times

By Michael Barbaro

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When The Daily started, we did not put much thought into what an episode should be titled. In fact, we gave it no thought. The episodes were labeled by date.

The name of our debut episode? "Wednesday, Feb. 1, 2017."

You had to listen to find out what it was about. (Donald J. Trump's first Supreme Court nominee, Neil Gorsuch.)

That system persisted until April 2018, when, at long last, we introduced episode titles that actually described the content of the show. That day's title: "James Comey Opens Up About Ego, Distrust and More." (Comey had sat down with us for an interview.)

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From that moment on, we had a challenge: to figure out what, beyond summarizing an episode, a Daily show title was supposed to accomplish.

In some ways, we knew what we did not want — to give away too much information or for it to read like a newspaper headline.

We settled on short titles that focused on the big takeaways (and sometimes eschewed verbs): "North Korea's Fear? Becoming Libya" or "What Trump Learned From Clinton's Impeachment." Sometimes, we let events speak for themselves: "The State of the Union," "The Impeachment Trial Begins" or "Joe Biden Wins the Presidency." And for better or worse, I'm a sucker for alliteration, meaning titles like "A Historic Handshake" or "Chaos and Contempt: The First Presidential Debate" are often written in the early hours of the morning.

But it turns out, some episodes are so nuanced that our words fail to capture them. So we defer to our guests. For a memorable episode, my colleague, Lynsea Garrison, spoke with Scott Watson, a Black officer struggling with his identity as a member of the police force in Flint, Mich., after George Floyd was killed in police custody in Minneapolis. We used his own words for the title. "Who Replaces Me?"

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Last week, when Azam Ahmed, a Times correspondent, told the story of Miriam Rodríguez, whose daughter was kidnapped and killed by a Mexican cartel, we could not imagine a more fitting or more powerful title than her own plaintive request: "Please, Give Me Back My Daughter."

Talk to Michael on Twitter: @mikiebarb.

For fans of The Sunday Read

By Desiree Ibekwe and Mahima Chablani

2020 was the year many lost a sense. Our writer explored what that meant. Stephanie Gonot for The New York Times

If you listen to The Daily on Sundays, you're probably familiar with our team's work narrating stories across our newsroom. But, in addition to The Sunday Read, we have also been working with reporters to develop read-aloud versions of their articles. John Woo, a senior editor, and Parin Behrooz, our production coordinator, are two members of the team that make it all happen. We've asked them to recommend their favorite narrated articles from recent weeks:

Smell is a "startling superpower," writes Brooke Jarvis in "The Forgotten Sense." I used to think there was no limit to science's ability to understand how our body engages with the outside world. "Everything — everything! — will ultimately be discovered and known," is how many faithful believers in science were raised. Covid-19 changed that. Although we learned so much this past year about our connectedness and ingrained human interaction patterns, we also realized — through its connection with Covid-19 — how little we know about olfaction. Brooke's article is a thorough unpacking of the recent changes in our understanding of the "bonus sense." — John Woo, senior audio editor

It's rare to come across a story that's told so vividly that it can transport you to a specific time and place. In Michael Wilson's piece about the extraordinary circumstances surrounding Dr. King's stabbing in 1958, we're taken to a Harlem department store on a cloudless Saturday afternoon in September. Michael's story is a tribute to Al Howard, but it also captures the city's energy and is even more captivating when told by Michael himself, in his warm and resonant voice. — Parin Behrooz, production coordinator

What recording looks like behind the scenes:

"We don't have eggshell baffling like in a pro studio, but we do what we can to make sure our reporters sound good," says editor John Woo. Here's a view of one writer's makeshift recording studio.

"I have a face for radio and a voice for print. Yet they asked me to read from my home sound studio," John Branch, a sports reporter for The Times, said on Twitter.John Branch, via Twitter

To hear more audio stories from publishers like The New York Times, download Audm for iPhone or Android.

On The Daily this week

Monday: What the fight over the fates of Liz Cheney and Marjorie Taylor Greene tells us about the future of the Republican Party.

Tuesday: Ahead of the second Trump impeachment trial, Jim Rutenberg gives us a rundown of what we can expect from the prosecution and defense.

Wednesday: The Biden administration wants to reopen school quickly. But what will that take?

Thursday: Our investigation into Victor Rivera, the homeless shelter boss accused of sexual and financial misconduct.

Friday: We look at the history of "laïcité" — France's model of secularism — and ask whether it still has a place in the modern, multicultural country.

That's it for The Daily newsletter. See you next week.

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