2021年4月24日 星期六

Now My Kid Knows How Dumb I Really Am

The case for learning new things alongside your child.
A roundup of new guidance and stories from NYT Parenting.
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There are so many questions my 8-year-old asks me that I struggle to answer, showing her over and over again just how dumb I am. Because lately she's been fixated on learning the names of all the U.S. presidents in order, she has been asking things like, "Was William Howard Taft a good president?" Honestly, I have no idea. The only fact I know about him is that he once got stuck in a bathtub (which, as it turns out, is probably a fat-phobic myth anyway).

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Instead of just living in blissful ignorance while my daughter asks daily questions about various heads of state, this wonderful essay by Tom Vanderbilt has inspired me to learn about American history alongside her, so we can discuss Grover Cleveland together. (Did you know he's the only president to serve two nonconsecutive terms? Now we both do.) Tom writes about his decision to take on new challenges, from surfing to chess, with his daughter: "Not only would this be a great bonding experience — and just fun for me — but I could model the act of learning itself."

Also new this week, in honor of Earth Day, Michelle Nijhuis tells us how to instill a love of nature in your kids year round. Adam Grant has pinpointed that pandemic blah you're feeling: It's an emotion called "languishing," and he has tips for how to fix it. Gia Kourlas writes about a baby boom among professional dancers — they couldn't perform during the pandemic, so they decided to use the break to become moms. Finally, a preliminary study finds no evidence that the Pfizer or Moderna vaccines are unsafe during pregnancy.

Do you find yourself feeling like the influencers you follow on social media and fitness experts you watch on streaming platforms are your real-life friends? I want to talk to you for a story. Drop me a line here.

Thanks for reading!

— Jessica Grose, columnist, NYT Parenting

THIS WEEK IN NYT PARENTING

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Jan Buchczik

Want Your Kid to Learn Something New? Sign Yourself Up, Too.

How taking on unfamiliar challenges alongside my daughter benefits us both.

By Tom Vanderbilt

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Enzo Pérès-Labourdette

Plant a Love of Nature in Your Kids

This Earth Day, show kids they can find refuge in the outdoors.

By Michelle Nijhuis

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Manshen Lo

There's a Name for the Blah You're Feeling: It's Called Languishing

The neglected middle child of mental health can dull your motivation and focus — and it may be the dominant emotion of 2021.

By Adam Grant

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'I Wish I Got Pregnant in March!' Inside the Dance Baby Boom.

Many dancers have taken advantage of a byproduct of the pandemic — time away from performing — to try out a new role: motherhood.

By Gia Kourlas

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No evidence that Pfizer or Moderna vaccines are unsafe during pregnancy, a preliminary study says.

Early research suggests that two Covid-19 vaccines pose no greater risk for pregnant people than for anyone else.

By Emily Anthes

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What Questions Do You Have About Sleep?

Plagued by insomnia? Waking up in the night? Dubious about supplements? The Well desk wants to help.

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Tiny Victories

Parenting can be a grind. Let's celebrate the tiny victories.

I played "truth or dare" for a solid 45 minutes with my 5-year-old while cooking dinner. She had a blast "daring" to count the number of steps in our home, setting the table and making a card for her dad. We both enjoyed learning truths about each other. — Linnae Kendall, Marshall, Mich.

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2021年4月23日 星期五

The Daily: Radio Nostalgia

How we put our show on the airwaves. Plus, a trip through Radio Garden.

Hey everyone, Happy Friday. We're dedicating this real estate in your inbox to something delightful and nostalgic: the radio.

We have lots of love for podcasting's early pioneers and predecessors — the giants of radio who have told stories, and developed new forms of journalism, on air for decades. And, many of you who listen to our show on your phones might not know that it is also carried on over 250 public radio stations around the country.

So whether you're still in love with radio, or ready to rediscover it, read on, and let us know about the last time you heard The Daily on the radio.

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Putting The Daily on the Airwaves

By Desiree Ibekwe and Mahima Chablani

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The Daily officially came to radio in April 2018, premiering on 16 stations. Theo Balcomb, a founder of The Daily, shared in this newsletter some context on our show's first foray onto the airwaves. Nearly two years on, our radio reach has grown to hundreds of stations around the country, so we wanted to dedicate this newsletter to some of the work our small but mighty radio crew does that you might not know about.

Every weekday, Diana Nguyen, a producer on our team, along with Marc Georges, an editor, works to bring The Daily to the hundreds of radio stations across the country that carry the show. Their goal: cutting down the episode, whatever the length, no matter the topic, to 22 minutes, the time allotted for our show on public radio — and delivering to those stations by 3 p.m. Eastern.

"Some days it's really easy, some days it's super hard," said Diana, who recalls the mammoth 45-50 minute episodes we published during last year's election cycle.

Decisions about what to cut can also be heartbreaking. "Sometimes I have to cut whole sources," she added. This was the case with Abel Oleson, the vintage shirt-wearing, mustachioed bartender in "How a Small Bar Battled to Survive the Coronavirus," our episode about a California bar.

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Michael Simon Johnson, a producer who was part of the original team led by executive producer Theo Balcomb, helped make the show radio-ready in its early days. When experimenting with and setting up bulletproof processes, there was one big question they had to broach: What if news changes by the time the episode goes out to air? There were radio stations that didn't air The Daily until the evening, and a few hours for a breaking news episode can be a death knell.

"For podcast listeners, it's fine," Michael said. "They know that the episode came out in the morning. So if you listen to it later in the day after some big event has happened, it's fine because you know you're listening to something in the past." He added, "But that's not going to fly on the radio."

So the team has to be flexible and alert to any changes that could upend an episode. Here, Michael recalls one particularly hairy situation:

Michael Simon Johnson on the stoop of The Daily's roving Brooklyn bureau.The New York Times

"Back in 2018, we did an episode about how the Trump administration was going to respond to a suspected chemical attack that killed dozens of Syrian civilians. President Trump had promised retaliation, but we didn't know what that was going to look like, so the episode was speculative. It came out in the morning and started to air on the radio stations throughout the day. And then in the evening, the decision was made to send U.S. airstrikes to Syria. At the time, I was at dinner. I was monitoring the situation the whole time and I had my work computer with me because I knew I might need to work if news came out.

I left dinner, went outside, used my phone as a hotspot, opened up my laptop and started chatting with Theo Balcomb and Michael Barbaro. Michael recorded an update to the episode and then I opened up our editing software, Pro Tools.

I was sitting on the stoop of a random apartment building in Dumbo, Brooklyn, updating this episode and sending it out to the stations that needed it. It took maybe 15, 20 minutes. And then I went back to dinner and I was like, 'Sorry, everyone, uh, we just bombed Syria. And I had to deal with this."

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A Radio Road Trip

Radio Garden

A few months ago, a link started circulating in a few of our audio-related Slack channels at The Times. It was to a website called Radio Garden, and the link revealed an interactive map that looked something like a zoomed out view of earth at night, with small lights clustered in cities around the world. Those lights represent radio stations, and spinning the map changes the sounds, enabling users to scan station signals from Albuquerque to Almaty, Kazakhstan.

From our searching, we've discovered there are a surprising number of country music stations across Europe (including a particularly good one in Hof, Germany), which has reminded us that airwaves are still a vehicle for American soft power, as they have been for the better part of the last century. But, looking closer at the lone lights scattered across continents, you can still hear localism, alive and well, in a diversity of languages. Take a look, and in the meantime, here are two listening recommendations for stations both familiar and foreign:

  • "My lockdown had a few phases, but throughout them all, I was consistently pretty nostalgic. So when I found Arctic Outpost on radio.garden, I was ecstatic about the discovery. This AM-MW station plays early 20th-century jazz, blues, big band and vintage country — the kind of music that makes you wanna curl up under a blanket with hot coco and watch the snowfall — and it's hosted by Cal Lockwood out of Svalbard, Norway, which is apparently 'one of the world's northernmost inhabited areas.' Cozy!" — Parin Behrooz, production coordinator for narrated articles.
  • "I'm bad about taking the time to make playlists, and am mostly ambivalent about their fundamental value proposition: total listening control. I love the lack of choice that comes with radio, the serendipity of listening to songs that someone, somewhere has chosen for you (a real, actual person, not an algorithm). Radio Garden has thrown me from my work day back to my hometown — with Alice 107.7 transporting me from London to Little Rock, Arkansas, with an O'Reilly Auto Parts jingle that doesn't seem to have changed in at least a decade. I'd encourage you to find your favorite childhood station, if you can, and listen for the sounds of home." — Lauren Jackson, this newsletter's editor.

On The Daily this week

Monday: We look at the tense and difficult diplomatic triangle between Iran, Israel and the United States.

Tuesday: A wave of bills has been introduced across the United States that affect transgender youth. We look at the motivations behind and the impact of these measures.

Wednesday: A jury found Derek Chauvin guilty of murdering George Floyd. We explore the verdict and listen to the reaction on the ground in Minneapolis.

Thursday: How a recent shooting at a FedEx facility exposed the flaws in Indiana's "red flag" gun laws.

Friday: What the spectacular fall of a breakaway tournament for European soccer says about the future of the world's biggest sport.

That's it for The Daily newsletter. See you next week.

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