2021年7月10日 星期六

Plan a Summer Microadventure

Families can find awe locally, kids face climate curveballs at camp, and more from NYT Parenting.
A roundup of new guidance and stories from NYT Parenting.
Golden Cosmos

That family trip to the beach this summer may offer a long-awaited respite from the boredom of hunkering down during the pandemic. But if you're short on vacation time, and looking to stay closer to home, consider a microadventure.

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This week, Emily Pennington argues that outdoor fun doesn't have to be had on a Grand Canyon-scale. A microadventure, which could mean simply exploring your own backyard, can easily spark awe — an emotion that may have gone missing in our lives.

"Awe basically shuts down self-interest and self-representation and the nagging voice of the self," said Dacher Keltner, a professor of psychology at the University of California, Berkeley. "That's different from feeling pride or amusement or just feeling good. It's like, 'I'm after something sacred.'"

Summer camps are open and offering kids the opportunity for adventure after pandemic isolation, but another emergency is keeping campers from fully enjoying the great outdoors — climate change.

"Rising temperatures, wildfire smoke, shifting species ranges and more are introducing risks, and camps are struggling to adapt," writes John Schwartz, a climate reporter. "And with deadly heat waves, like the one in the Pacific Northwest, dealing with extreme heat is becoming a necessity to keep campers safe."

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New York City parents are happily signing their children up for the adventure that is in-person learning this summer. "While last summer's city learning program, fully virtual, enrolled 177,000 students, about 201,000 children are enrolled in this year's in-person program so far," report Emma Goldberg and Precious Fondren.

While you may have booked a camp slot and helped plan a packed academic schedule for the fall, it's not your job to save your kid from boredom, Shalini Shankar contends in Opinion.

Also this week, writer Joyce Maynard says that more than 30 years after her divorce she realizes growing up in a "broken home" didn't break her children's spirits, and fellow novelist Viet Thanh Nguyen offers advice for artists whose parents want them to be engineers.

Finally, parents never stop wanting to help their children through tough times, even when those kids become young adults. Julie Halpert offers ways to support adult children who are grappling with mental health challenges.

Thanks for reading!

— Melonyce McAfee, senior editor, NYT Parenting

THIS WEEK IN NYT PARENTING

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Climate Change Is Making It Harder for Campers to Beat the Heat

Burn bans, flashlight campfires, extreme heat and stronger rainstorms: Today's campers are experiencing their summer fun against the backdrop of climate change.

By John Schwartz

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Andrea D'Aquino

How to Support Adult Children Struggling With Mental Health

Expert advice on how to gently offer help and compassion.

By Julie Halpert

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John Tully for The New York Times

Who Needs the Grand Canyon? Try a Microadventure.

How to find a sense of awe and discover a miraculous world right outside your door.

By Emily Pennington

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Anamaria Morris

Guest Essay

A 'Broken Home' Didn't Break Me, or My Kids

Three decades after her divorce, the novelist Joyce Maynard celebrates what would have been her 44th wedding anniversary. 

By Joyce Maynard

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Jose A. Alvarado Jr. for The New York Times

Who's Happy About In-Person Summer School? N.Y.C. Parents.

With low virus rates easing safety concerns, more than 200,000 children have been enrolled in the city's summer learning program.

By Emma Goldberg and Precious Fondren

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María Medem

Guest Essay

Advice for Artists Whose Parents Want Them to Be Engineers

How to follow your heart, even if it disappoints your parents.

By Viet Thanh Nguyen

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Nicholas Konrad/The New York Times

Guest Essay

A Packed Schedule Doesn't Really 'Enrich' Your Child

Overscheduling them with extracurriculars or putting them in front of screens aren't the only choices.

By Shalini Shankar

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Tiny Victories

Parenting can be a grind. Let's celebrate the tiny victories.

My 4-year-old constantly wants to run ahead of me in parking lots. Remembering my fondness for the "Super Friends" cartoons from my youth, I told him we were part of a secret group of superheroes, and that we need to hold hands to activate our powers whenever we walk near cars. Now he eagerly grabs for my hand while shouting, "Wonder Twin powers, activate!" after we park our car. — Jane Cannici, Morristown, N.J.

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2021年7月9日 星期五

The Daily: What Is Critical Race Theory?

And how to learn more about the issue dividing school districts across the country.
Protesting against the teaching of critical race theory, at the Loudoun County Government Center in Leesburg, Va., in June.Andrew Caballero-Reynolds/Agence France-Presse — Getty Images

We had a shorter holiday week on The Daily, but we covered a lot of ground, traveling from Afghanistan to Haiti. Along the way, many of you wrote in to share your thoughts and feelings about our episode on critical race theory.

It's a complicated subject with a lot of history and nuance to unpack, and some of you were interested in learning more. So we reached out to Trip Gabriel, a national correspondent and our guest, to answer some of your questions.

What is critical race theory (C.R.T.)?

Critical race theory is a concept, once the domain of graduate schools, that some observers say is now influencing American K-12 curriculums. The theory argues that historical patterns of racism are ingrained in law and other modern institutions, and that the legacies of slavery, segregation and Jim Crow still create an uneven playing field for Black people and other people of color. The idea is that racism is not a matter of individual bigotry but is systemic in America. Recently critics have made C.R.T. a catchall target for opposition to equity efforts, affirmative action and "wokeness" in general.

Conservatives object that critical race theory is a gauntlet thrown down to accuse all white Americans of being racist, of dividing people by race into oppressors and oppressed. Democrats are conflicted. Some worry that arguing that America is racist to the root — a view that is conventional wisdom among elements of the party's progressive wing — contradicts the opinion of most Americans and is handing Republicans a political cudgel for the 2022 midterm elections.

Do you have any examples of how C.R.T. is being taught in schools?

You'd have to look long and hard to find any K-12 classroom where the term "critical race theory" comes up. Instead, what critics tend to target is the influence of concepts derived from C.R.T. that infuse the equity training field (some examples include acknowledging and subverting white privilege, or labeling people as oppressors or oppressed based on identity). This kind of training has been offered by various school districts to teachers in the name of combating implicit bias.

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While the anti-C.R.T. activist Christoper F. Rufo lists 11 examples of "critical race theory in education," most are examples of schools offering teachers diversity training. He also cites a lesson planned for third graders in Cupertino, Calif., in which students were asked to draw an "identity map" listing their race, class and gender, and the teacher was asked to identify some characteristics as part of the "dominant culture." But according to The Washington Post, the lesson was canceled after one use when parents complained.

Meanwhile, some schools have recommended to young readers the book "Not My Idea: A Book About Whiteness,'' which, in discussing the police shooting of a person of color, makes the point that white supremacy is embedded in American society.

The show covered criticisms of C.R.T. from the right. Is there criticism of the theory from the left?

Some classical liberals have argued that critical race theory rejects concepts like meritocracy, individualism and unbridled free speech, which it deems products of a white dominant culture. Taking a different angle, John McWhorter, an author who teaches at Columbia University, argues that C.R.T. as interpreted by the anti-racism training field "diminishes Black people in the name of dignifying us."

What should listeners read if they want to learn more about C.R.T.?

A seminal book by some of the founding scholars of the academic movement is "Words That Wound'' (1993). The introductory chapters of "Critical Race Theory: An Introduction" (2001) lay out the movement's genesis and principal views.

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In recent months, there have been good explainers in the press about how America's reckoning over systemic racism in policing brought new prominence to critical race theory — and provoked a backlash. I found this piece by Fabiola Cineas in Vox helpful, along with this column by Michelle Goldberg of The Times. A deep dive into the related topic of anti-bias training — inspired partly by C.R.T. — can be found in a Times Magazine profile of Robin DiAngelo, author of "White Fragility," by Daniel Bergner. Adam Harris in The Atlantic took a look at bills in state legislatures seeking to ban "divisive concepts" in education and elsewhere. And Wikipedia (insert usual caveats) has a quite comprehensive look.

Talk to Trip on Twitter: @tripgabriel.

Holding Onto Hope

Debby Rosenkrantz, a trial participant for an experimental Alzheimer's drug, spoke with The Daily on Wednesday's episode.Kayana Szymczak for The New York Times

Pam Belluck, a health and science writer, reflects on her recent reporting on Aduhelm, a controversial new Alzheimer's drug, through one family's experience with it:

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By the time I had interviewed Debby Rosenkrantz and Susan Woskie for The Daily, I had been covering Alzheimer's and dementia for more than a decade.

I've traveled to Colombia to report about the world's largest family with genetic early-onset Alzheimer's; went to South Korea to write about children being trained to assist people with dementia; and spent time in a California men's prison to observe how convicted murderers were helping fellow prisoners with dementia with activities like showering, shaving and eating. I've written about how dementia might affect the ability to give sexual consent. And this past year I've written about Covid and dementia.

I've become well aware of the complexities and cruelties of this condition, and I've followed the roller-coaster ride of the search for answers — from discoveries of a gene mutation that might protect against Alzheimer's to out-of-the-box therapeutic approaches like using flickering light and sound.

As I've been talking with patients and family members for my recent reporting on the new drug, Aduhelm, what has struck me most is how thoughtful and insightful they've been about the difficult situation they find themselves in. Several people I've interviewed are clear-eyed and candid about their poignant reality, including Debby and her wife, Susan.

The couple knows that so far Debby, who participated in the clinical trial of Aduhelm and began receiving monthly infusions of it again about 10 months ago, has experienced no discernible benefit from the drug. "It just feels like there's a blank in places where there shouldn't be a blank in my brain," Debby told me.

They understand the drug can cause brain swelling or brain bleeding, and Debby undergoes regular brain scans to check for such effects. And Susan, a retired professor of public health, told me before the F.D.A. decision that the data about the drug was "squishy stuff" and that if the F.D.A. decided not to approve it, "that wouldn't surprise me, and it might make sense."

And yet they have decided to continue giving the drug a try. They are doing so because they realize there is nothing else out there for them yet. Maybe doing something, whether it's taking an unproven drug or exercising or changing one's diet, can give some people a sense of hope that might be therapeutic in itself. In a devastating, unpredictable disease that little by little steals away part of one's mind, hope may actually be the best medicine available right now.

Talk to Pam on Twitter: @PamBelluck.

On The Daily this week

Tuesday: What we know about the Delta variant.

Wednesday: Inside the lived reality of a contentious Alzheimer's treatment.

Thursday: The American withdrawal from Afghanistan.

Friday: A presidential assassination in Haiti.

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