2021年8月7日 星期六

Back to Abnormal

School, work and new books on parenting.
A roundup of new guidance and stories from NYT Parenting.
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This summer, there's been a lot of talk about getting back to things: Back to the office. Back to school. Back to normal. But the Delta variant of the coronavirus is throwing a wrench into that conversation.

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While schools across the country are returning to in-person learning, workplaces are waffling about what to do with their temporarily remote workers. And many parents are at a loss for how to progress in their careers while caring for kids at home.

"Especially as the Delta variant spreads, many parents of young children — those under 12 who cannot yet be vaccinated — say they're unable to return to workplaces or apply for new jobs as long as there is uncertainty about when their children can safely return to full-time school or child care," Claire Cain Miller writes this week.

Emily Anthes looks at the constantly shifting dialogue about schools reopening, in light of Delta. "Much remains unknown about the variant, including whether it affects children more seriously than earlier forms of the virus," Anthes reports. "And with vaccination rates highly uneven, and most decision-making left up to local officials, the variant adds new uncertainty to the coming school year — and makes it even more critical for schools to take safety precautions as they reopen, scientists said."

When it comes to parenting, the questions don't stop. Economist and parenting writer Emily Oster "applies a business-school problem-solving model to the parenting decisions of the elementary school years. Summer camp? Private school? Violin lessons?" Lauren Smith Brody writes in a review of Oster's newest release, "The Family Firm," and two other new parenting books.

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Well's Gretchen Reynolds explains how to make an Olympian, from the ground up. Surprisingly, it doesn't mean focusing on only one sport. The best athletes often dabble in a range of sports when they are young before rising to the top of their game in one, a new analysis found.

Business reporters Ben Casselman and Ella Koeze dig into the ways the pandemic changed how all of us spend our time, including parents: "The big change was in the amount of time parents spent watching their children while juggling other tasks, what Labor Department statisticians call 'secondary child care,'" they find.

Finally, Andrew Kaczynski, an investigative reporter and founder of CNN's KFile Team, writes in a heartbreaking guest essay for Opinion that seeking medical treatment for a child who is battling serious illness should not bankrupt a family. Although good insurance, consistent paychecks and community support allowed his family to financially cover treatments for his daughter's brain cancer, not all families are so "lucky."

Thanks for reading,

— Melonyce McAfee, senior editor, NYT Parenting

THIS WEEK IN NYT PARENTING

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John Gall

The Shortlist

The Pressures and Privileges of Being a Parent in 2021

Three new books delve into the choices faced by modern families.

By Lauren Smith Brody

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Leah Nash for The New York Times

Return to Work? Not With Child Care Still in Limbo, Some Parents Say.

The rise of the Delta variant and the uncertainty over schools and child care are keeping these parents from applying for jobs.

By Claire Cain Miller

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Ozier Muhammad/The New York Times

Phys Ed

The Making of an Olympian

The best world-class athletes often dabble in a range of sports when young before rising to the top of their game in one, a new analysis found.

By Gretchen Reynolds

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Cody O'Loughlin for The New York Times

The Delta Variant in Schools: What to Know

Classrooms are opening their doors to a different pandemic. Here is how to think about risk.

By Emily Anthes

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Illustration by The New York Times; Photographs by Patcha1984, via Getty Images

Guest Essay

I Will Mourn My Daughter Forever. But I Was One of the Lucky Ones.

It's hard enough to have a child with cancer. It shouldn't crush families financially.

By Andrew Kaczynski

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The Pandemic Changed How We Spent Our Time

Minute-by-minute data offers a glimpse of how we suddenly adapted to a different way of living in 2020 — and how those changes varied greatly across groups.

By Ben Casselman and Ella Koeze

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Tiny Victories

Parenting can be a grind. Let's celebrate the tiny victories.

To get my toddler to take one more bite of food, we "go fishing," putting the food on the end of the fork for the "Benji fish." He has finished entire meals "swimming" up to the table for a bite! — Adrienne Saxe, Houston

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It takes more than popular positions to win

The problem with "popularism."
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By Jamelle Bouie

Opinion Columnist

There is a continuing debate among writers, observers and strategists associated with the Democratic Party on the best way to win elections in closely divided (or even Republican-leaning) areas. The ascendant position is called "popularism," in which you "talk about popular issues, and not talk about unpopular issues," as David Shor, a Democratic pollster and proponent for the approach, recently explained.

Writing for The Week magazine, Ryan Cooper gives a critique of popularism that I agree with. First, that polling is too imprecise and unreliable to be the basis for a durable political strategy, and second, that what's popular isn't necessarily what's strategically wise or tactically advantageous. Here's Cooper:

Obsessively monitoring polls and instantly trimming down or throwing out policies that don't register a strongly positive poll result will tend to reinforce that wimpy attitude. It will also tend to rule out unpopular but tactically sound moves, like for example pushing through with an economic stimulus that may not poll well today but will ensure unemployment is low on Election Day. Conversely, Bill Clinton's passage of free trade deals may have paid off politically in the short term, but did tremendous damage to the Democrats' long-term performance in the numerous places that were harmed.

There is another problem with popularism. The idea that voters will respond mechanistically to candidates with popular policies depends on a picture of voters as essentially rational, utility-maximizing actors. But voters are notably irrational. They don't calmly evaluate candidates on the basis of their positions; they make character and value judgments mediated by partisanship and external conditions. Affect and demeanor matter as much as ideology and belief.

It does not hurt to emphasize popular policies over unpopular ones. But successful candidates in difficult races need more than just popular positions to succeed. They need to show — through image and language — that their values align with voters' as much as their positions. They need to embody the kind of politics they hope to pursue.

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We have good examples of this. Bernie Sanders did not become a popular, beloved political figure because he had positions in line with those of the median voter. He became a popular, beloved political figure because his affect, demeanor and language demonstrated a deep commitment to values held by millions of American voters. Raphael Warnock, the recently elected senator from Georgia, accomplished a similar feat, running a campaign that was as much about his identity as a husband, father, religious leader and native son of the state as it was about his positions.

Given a strong enough and distinct enough identity, candidates can even turn a controversial or unpopular belief into a sign of their authenticity and independence. This, I think, was one of Donald Trump's great political talents. (And to the popularists' point, Trump was closer to the median voter on Social Security and Medicare than previous Republican presidential candidates.)

For as much as there is a lot to learn from the systematic study of political life, it's also true that the practice of politics is not a science and that there is no set formula to selecting candidates or running winning campaigns. I am not opposed to popularism per se, but I would also urge its proponents to consider the possibility that the kinds of candidates who can win might be rough and idiosyncratic in unpredictable and unquantifiable ways.

What I Wrote

My Tuesday column was on Donald Trump's continuing attempt to essentially overthrow American democracy and install himself as president, regardless of what the American people say:

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It is not hard to see the endgame here, especially if Trump makes another bid for the White House after capturing the Republican nomination for a third time. Not an after-the-fact fight to "stop the steal," but a pre-emptive attempt to make sure the election can't be "stolen" — that is, won — by his opponent.

My Friday column took Tucker Carlson's newfound fondness for the Hungarian autocrat Viktor Orban as a jumping-off point for exploring a tendency of conservative intellectuals to embrace authoritarian leaders and governments:

At this point, students of American political history — and specifically students with a working knowledge of the history of the conservative movement — will recognize something familiar about this story. Here we have prominent conservative writers and intellectuals using their platforms to support or endorse regimes whose politics and policies align with their preoccupations, even as the values of those regimes stand in direct opposition to the ideals of American democracy.

I also did a Twitter live chat and Q. and A., which you can watch here.

Now Reading

Richard L. Hasen on the future of election subversion in Slate.

Amanda Mull on American shoppers and American consumerism in The Atlantic.

Rebecca Traister on Andrew Cuomo in New York magazine.

Olúfẹ́mi O. Táíwò on "racial capitalism" for Dissent magazine.

Annette Gordon-Reed on W.E.B. Du Bois's data visualizations in the New York Review of Books.

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Photo of the Week

Jamelle Bouie

This is the base of what was the Thomas "Stonewall" Jackson statue in Charlottesville, Va. It was removed on the same day the Robert E. Lee statute was, albeit without the same coverage or fanfare. The city also removed a statue of Lewis and Clark — on account of its pretty awful imagery — and the University of Virginia removed a statue depicting the conquering of the West. All were placed in the 1920s, and you should understand them as part of a singular project: to claim Charlottesville on behalf of its white elite.

Now Eating: Chicken in Oaxacan Yellow Mole With Green Beans and Potatoes

I made this for dinner last night. It's from the cookbook "Mexican Everyday" by Rick Bayless. I had intended to use beans for this, but decided to go with the chicken. The recipe calls for using boneless, skinless chicken thighs, but I think it is easier — and works better — to just used already cooked chicken, like a grocery store rotisserie chicken. You should serve this with corn or flour tortillas on the side, preferably homemade.

Ingredients

  • 4 dried guajillo chiles, 1 ounce total, stemmed, seeded and torn into several pieces each
  • 1 15-ounce can diced tomatoes in juice, drained
  • 1 medium white onion, cut in 4 pieces
  • 3 garlic cloves, peeled and halved
  • ½ teaspoon each ground cumin, allspice and cinnamon
  • 1 teaspoon dried Mexican oregano
  • 4 cups chicken stock, divided
  • 2 tablespoons olive oil
  • 2 tablespoons masa harina
  • meat from 1 whole rotisserie chicken, skin removed
  • 6 ounces green beans, trimmed and cut into 2-inch pieces
  • 1 pound baby Yukon Gold potatoes, cut in half
  • ½ cup roughly chopped cilantro

Directions

In a blender jar, combine the torn guajillo chiles, tomatoes, onion, garlic, spices, oregano and 1 cup of the chicken broth. Blend until as smooth as possible.

In a medium-large, heavy pot (like a Dutch oven), heat the oil over medium-high. Set a medium-mesh strainer over the top and pour in the chile mixture; press the mixture through the strainer into the hot oil. (Note: You won't need to take this step if you're using a high-powered blender, like a Vitamix.)

Cook over medium heat, stirring, until the mixture is reduced to the consistency of tomato paste, about 15 minutes.

Whisk the masa harina into the remaining 3 cups broth, then pour into the cooked chile mixture. Whisk until the sauce comes to a boil and thickens. Reduce the heat to medium-low. Add the chicken, green beans, potatoes and 1 teaspoon salt. Simmer gently, stirring regularly, for about 20 minutes, until all the chicken and vegetables are tender. Serve.

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