2021年10月2日 星期六

How’s School Going? 🥴

2021 is an improvement on last year, but it's not without hiccups.
A roundup of new guidance and stories from NYT Parenting.
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School is back in full swing for most districts around the country, but not without a catalog of pandemic hiccups. My kids' school had its first case of Covid caught by randomized testing on Day 3. It wasn't in either of my kids' grades, but it definitely made me feel like every day they are healthy and in a classroom, rather than quarantined at home, is a blessing. Ali Smith and Joshua Bright capture this cautious optimism beautifully in a photo essay called "This Is How I Look Taking My Son to School, My Sanitized Fingers Crossed."

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Much of our recent Parenting coverage is about the ripple effects on our children of a world that is still not back to normal. This week, Madeleine Ngo reports on shortages of cafeteria staples that school districts across the country are experiencing because of the pandemic. A whopping "97 percent of school-meal program directors reported having concerns about supply-chain disruptions," according to a survey from the School Nutrition Association.

Erica L. Green has an article about parents of disabled students who are confronting mask wars in Tennessee, where masks are not required at school. "It's very dystopian," said Kim Hart, the mother of a child with Down syndrome and autism who had open-heart surgery five years ago. "I'm used to arguing with a district to get my kid what he needs," she said. "I'm not used to my neighbors screaming at a school board meeting over a mandate that protects everybody."

Also new: The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention urges those who are pregnant or lactating to get the Covid vaccine, as vaccination rates are much lower among this population than the general population. "Twenty-two pregnant people in the United States died of Covid in August, the highest number in a single month since the pandemic started," Roni Caryn Rabin notes.

In Opinion, Lara Bazelon has an essay about how divorce can be an act of self-love, and why "staying together for the children," isn't always the best idea. And in Health, Sabrina Imbler covers a new study showing that transgender youth face many barriers to adequate health care.

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Finally, if you read only one story this week, make it this heart-rending feature about Dasani, who spent parts of her childhood in New York City without a home. As a middle schooler, Dasani attended a boarding school in Pennsylvania that was established "to rescue children from poverty," and the article traces her journey from there. Andrea Elliott has been following Dasani, her seven siblings and their parents since 2012, and the result is breathtaking journalism.

Thanks for reading.

— Jessica Grose, columnist, NYT Parenting

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THIS WEEK IN NYT PARENTING

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This Is How I Look Taking My Son to School, My Sanitized Fingers Crossed

The familiar act of bringing a child to school has become daily trial for a mother in Manhattan.

By Ali Smith and Joshua Bright

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Sarahbeth Maney/The New York Times

For Parents ​of Disabled Children, School Mask Wars Are Particularly Wrenching

In Tennessee, where the governor allows families to ignore school mask mandates, some parents are making excruciating calculations each morning about whether to send their children to school.

By Erica L. Green

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Katie Currid for The New York Times

No Veggies, No Buns, Few Forks: Schools Scramble to Feed Students Amid Shortages

Schools across the country are offering less healthy lunch options as they struggle with dwindling supplies, delayed shipments and fewer cafeteria workers.

By Madeleine Ngo

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Hannah Beier/Reuters

The C.D.C. escalates its pleas for pregnant and breastfeeding Americans to get vaccinated against Covid.

Pregnancy is among the health conditions that the agency says increase the risk of severe Covid.

By Roni Caryn Rabin

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Tamara Shopsin

Guest Essay

Divorce Can Be an Act of Radical Self-Love

I didn't divorce my husband because I didn't love him. I divorced my husband because I loved myself more.

By Lara Bazelon

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Aboubacar Kante for The New York Times

For Transgender Youth, Stigma Is Just One Barrier to Health Care

Discrimination, delays and systemic hurdles prevent young trans people from reaching the care they need, a new study finds.

By Sabrina Imbler

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Ruth Fremson/The New York Times

When Dasani Left Home

What happens when trying to escape poverty means separating from your family at 13?

By Andrea Elliott and Ruth Fremson

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Parenting can be a grind. Let's celebrate the tiny victories.

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2021年10月1日 星期五

The Daily: A Third Pandemic School Year

We called our sources in Odessa, Texas to check in.

Welcome to the weekend. Britney Spears, abortion, Haitian refugees: We covered a lot of ground on the show this week. Was there an episode that stood out to you — or one you'd like us to follow up on? Let us know. We always love to hear from you.

As the Northern Hemisphere settles into a third pandemic school year (whoa), our team has been thinking about school reopenings and how the Delta variant is affecting children. In the process, we've wondered: How are our sources in Odessa doing?

Our producer, Soraya Shockley, called some of the people you met in our four-part series on one West Texas high school's reopening. Here's what they said.

A third pandemic school year

Naomi Fuentes, a teacher at Odessa High School.Tamir Kalifa for The New York Times

The first day of school, always a momentous occasion, had added weight this year: In many school districts, it was an attempt to return to in-person instruction after multiple school years of disrupted teaching.

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But one preschool class in West Texas had the "Groundhog Day"-like experience of reliving that first day three times. Scott Muri, superintendent of the Ector County Independent School District, said that on the official first day, one of his preschool students tested positive for the coronavirus, sending the entire class to quarantine for 10 days. After, the class returned to campus, only to have another child in the class test positive. And so it went again.

"I think about that 3-year-old," Scott said. "It's his first school experience. And, you know, it's been a bit chaotic for him and for many of our kids."

The reality of another disrupted school year in Odessa, Texas, is a sharp contrast to the hopefulness of early summer, when President Biden announced "Independence Day" from the virus, masks came off and travel picked up.

"We were excited because everything was back to normal, the kids were showing up," Jimmy Olague, assistant band director at Odessa High School, said. "We had a full summer band like we always do."

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But in the months since, the number of children admitted to the hospital with Covid-19 has risen to the highest levels reported to date. Nearly 30,000 of them entered hospitals in August as America's children began returning to school, overwhelming children's hospitals and intensive care units in Texas. At least 45 districts in Texas have shut down in-person classes because of Covid-19 cases, affecting more than 40,000 students. And one school day at Odessa High School saw 110 positive cases among students and staff members, Scott said.

"We haven't had 100 percent attendance in our band since the first day of school because there's always somebody out, there's always somebody quarantined," Jimmy said. "I feel like the virus is worse. I feel like it's around us a lot more."

At the same time, Gov. Greg Abbott has barred mandates for vaccinations and masks in Texas. (He tested positive for the virus last month and has since recovered.) This means that teachers and administrators have limited options in mitigating the spread of the virus.

"I wish I could say in my class, you have to wear a mask, but I can't," Naomi Fuentes, a teacher at Odessa High School, said.

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Absenteeism has affected students' performance in class and in the band. "Our playing is not up to par right now," Jimmy said, adding: "It's been tough. My drum line is a lot smaller."

And while Scott, Jimmy and Naomi said the pandemic had also negatively affected their students' mental health and class behavior, they each noted students' resilience and positivity.

It helps, Scott said, that "the football team is having a great season." As students come and go from class and band practice, one thing is constant: the annual rivalry game with the Permian Panthers, the subject of the book "Friday Night Lights." This year's game is next Friday night.

Recommendations from 'the pod club'

Lucille Ball in the Broadway show "Wildcat."Everett Collection

Every Sunday on The New York Times Podcast Club Facebook group, we ask our members to share what shows they have been loving.

Here are some recommendations from our pod club for you to listen to this weekend.

Let's Talk to Lucy: This SiriusXM podcast unearths recordings that were once lost to history: Lucille Ball's 1964 CBS Radio interview show "Let's Talk to Lucy." It's a slice of old Hollywood, with a legendary guest list that includes a 22-year-old Barbra Streisand and Bob Hope.

This Land: This year, Crooked Media's "This Land" returned for a second season. Its first followed a murder case in Oklahoma and the potential impact on a reservation there. Two years later, it is taking on a different Indigenous story: how some conservatives have used the rules surrounding the adoption of Native American children as part of a culture war.

A Wish for Afghanistan: Fronted by Lyse Doucet, the BBC's chief international correspondent, this explores the conflict in Afghanistan through interviews with sources on all sides — a U.S. diplomat who negotiated the withdrawal, a founding member of the Taliban, and Hamid Karzai, Afghanistan's former president.

On The Daily this week

Monday: An exploration of the Biden administration's response to the increasing number of Haitian migrants at the U.S. border.

Tuesday: A conversation with Brig. Gen. Khoshal Sadat, a former Afghan deputy minister for security, about the Taliban, his career and Afghanistan's future.

Wednesday: A look at the details of Britney Spears's conservatorship, before a court decided its future.

Thursday: The Democratic discord over President Biden's infrastructure plan.

Friday: A visit to an Oklahoma clinic after Texas' abortion law.

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