2022年2月18日 星期五

The Daily: The Show Turns Five

Michael Barbaro reflects on half a decade of The Daily.
Michael Barbaro preparing for a four-hour election broadcast in November 2020.Sara Krulwich/The New York Times

On the morning of Feb. 1, Michael Barbaro sent an email to the Daily team with the subject line "5 Years!" For those of us still waking up bleary-eyed after producing that morning's episode, it was a reminder: The Daily was having a birthday.

Since 2017, our team has produced nearly 1,300 episodes and told countless stories. (You can revisit some of them in a playlist below.) Daily listeners have been with us through impeachments and elections, terror attacks and natural disasters, a riot at the Capitol and a global pandemic. You've allowed us into your lives, and you've shared with us your feedback and personal stories.

As we reflect on the show's half-decade history, we thought we'd share an excerpt from Michael's email:

Team,

Five years ago this morning, we published the very first episode of The Daily.

Listening back, as I did a few days ago, the host sounds gratingly high-pitched, but the episode vibrates with ambition. A new president had his first vacancy on the Supreme Court (sound familiar?), and we asked our inaugural guest, the ever-patient Adam Liptak, to prerecord two entirely different second segments, mini biographies of the two likeliest nominees, because we didn't know which judge Trump would select.

Neil Gorsuch was his choice, and those who hit play on Feb. 1, 2017, heard something remarkable: the authority, curiosity and humor of The Times brought to life in a totally new and intimate way.

The question was how many people would actually listen? From the start, we confronted a mountain of justifiable skepticism. Did the world really need a five-day-a-week news podcast? Wouldn't episodes get stale after 24 hours? Wouldn't Times reporters get tired of coming on?

Fair questions, all. There were ample reasons to think we would fail.

But what nobody could foresee back then was that the right combination of producers and editors, the right blend of audio journalists and storytellers, of composers and wordsmiths, Pro Tools wizards and guest whisperers — not to mention the world's best newsroom — could make a daily news podcast not just urgent and essential, not just beloved and addictive, but transcendent.
[…]

Here's to the next five years.

Michael

(And for some bonus birthday fodder, check out the origin story of our theme music and this list of the names we almost called the show.)

From the Daily team: some much-needed 'good news'

Like a prospector in the Klondike at the turn of the 20th century, the team panned through nearly 700 messages for some good news.Bettmann Archives, via Getty Images

Luke Vander Ploeg is up next in our series in which we ask Daily producers and editors to tell us about the most memorable episode that they've worked on. Luke has been with the team since 2019.

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Luke's pick is "The Year in Good News," from December 2020. The episode focused on brighter stories from a dark and difficult year provided by Daily listeners in the form of voice notes. We sat down with Luke to talk about making the show and sifting through some 400 voice recordings, with the help of other producers.

How did the episode come to be?

One of my fellow producers pitched the idea of an episode in which we asked listeners to tell us about good news that happened to them during the pandemic. It had been an incredibly rough year for everybody — 2020 was a dark time — and we wanted to discover what surprisingly beautiful things happened while people were suffering so much. So Michael did a callout on an episode, asking listeners to send in voice memos, and we built an episode using those recordings.

What was it like sifting through all those recordings?

Going through those voice memos was possibly the most fun thing I've ever done for The Daily. It was endlessly fun. It's always inspiring to hear from our listeners. The recordings were poetic, they were beautiful, they were surprising. Some of them were deeply moving, funny and adorable. It was a real privilege to get to listen to all of them and put them into an episode.

What was it about this episode that you loved so much?

I like to be involved in making things that scratch at the complexity of being human. I was shocked by the depth of feeling I experienced while I was putting this together. There was this one story about a woman who, because of the pandemic, was able to reconcile with her daughter. (They had been estranged for a number of years.) It also felt so good to interact with our listeners and to be in touch with real people, especially after months of lockdown. I'm really proud of what we came up with, and I think it was a service to a lot of people in a dark time.

Is there a moment from the process that sticks out in your mind?

I think the one part of the process that sticks out to me the most was when I called this kid named Thor. A mom sent in a voice memo about her son who had a genetic developmental disease. During the pandemic, he went into remission. For the first time, he was gifted the ability to do so many things that he wasn't able to do before. Whereas most people's lives were being put on hold, this kid suddenly got a life. I remember thinking, "I want to talk to this kid." So I got to call him and just chat with him on the phone for a little bit.

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Want to journey into the Daily archive?

Here's a short collection of essential Daily listens, handpicked by members of our team:

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'The Daily': The Climate Change Battle Through One Coal Miner's Eyes

Forget the political. For the 65,000 coal miners in the United States, this is just about daily life. We called one of them.

By Michael Barbaro

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Lost in the Storm, Part 1

Houston's emergency response systems, crippled by Hurricane Harvey, failed to reach people who needed help the most.

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The Woman Defending Harvey Weinstein

One of the reporters who broke the story of the Hollywood producer's alleged abuse speaks with Donna Rotunno, the lawyer behind Mr. Weinstein's legal strategy.

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'It's Like a War'

We spoke to a doctor triaging care at the heart of the coronavirus crisis in Italy about what may lie ahead for the U.S.

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The Burning of Black Tulsa

A century after a race massacre that leveled businesses and homes, and killed hundreds, what would justice look like?

By Michael Barbaro, Neena Pathak, Soraya Shockley, Annie Brown, Daniel Guillemette, Alexandra Leigh Young, Austin Mitchell, Liz O. Baylen, Lisa Chow and Chris Wood

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Listen to 'The Daily': Disappearing Factory Jobs

How President Trump's promise of "America First" has met the realities of U.S. manufacturing.

By Michael Barbaro

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On The Daily this week

Monday: We explore the Rooney Rule, a two-decade-old policy at the heart of a discrimination lawsuit against the N.F.L.

Tuesday: How would the Ukrainian people respond to a Russian invasion?

Wednesday: An exploration of the American-style trucker protests in Canada.

Thursday: Why, in the midst of an escalation at the Ukrainian border, the U.S. has rejected using its most powerful tool: troops.

That's it for the Daily newsletter. See you next week.

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2022年2月17日 星期四

When the parenting never stops

A new book focuses on caring for "difficult adult children."
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February 17, 2022

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"A mother's internalized mandate to protect her child does not end when her children are grown"

We have a mainstream directive for raising children in our society: You provide them with support, shelter and care until they're 18, and then they're supposed to be, more or less, self-sufficient, launched into the world as adults. This framework leaves out millions of parents whose children struggle with substance abuse or mental illness, who may be providing active care to their adult children for the rest of their lives.

A new book, "Difficult: Mothering Challenging Adult Children through Conflict and Change," by Judith R. Smith, an associate professor at the Graduate School of Social Service at Fordham, seeks to define and explore this often painful type of parenting. An estimated 8.4 million Americans care for "an adult with an emotional or mental health issue," according to a 2016 report from the National Alliance for Caregiving, and 45 percent of mental health caregivers are caring for an adult child.

For "Difficult," Smith writes, she spoke to 50 mothers of adult children who were not fully independent, who had issues from severe mental illness to persistent unemployment. All of these mothers were over 60, and many were also dealing with their own declining physical and emotional health. Smith writes that half the women she spoke to were doing this with incomes under $17,000 a year for a family of two.

"My research revealed that a mother's internalized mandate to protect her child does not end when her children are grown," Smith writes, and she outlines the stigma and worry they feel about their children's problems. She seeks to lessen this stigma for parents, more and more of whom will be in the same situation as her book's subjects in the coming years, with young adults increasingly reporting mental health issues, particularly during the pandemic, and the opioid crisis continuing to take lives.

There is very little social support for these parents and their children: According to the National Alliance for Caregiving, the majority of adult caregivers have trouble getting services for their loved ones like day programs or peer support, and close to half say they struggle to find treatment for substance abuse. Just as for younger children, mothers are spackling over every gap in the system, sometimes destroying themselves in the process. Sixty-two percent of parents who are caregivers for adult children say their caregiving role has made their own health worse.

I spoke to Smith about how she chose the term "difficult adult children" to refer to this population, what can be done to help caregivers and their children in the near term and why it's important for all parents to come to terms with their own ambivalence, because it is normal to have mixed feelings about our roles. The following conversation has been edited and condensed.

Jessica Grose: Tell me about the choice to use the term "difficult adult children," and what it means for the mothers in your book.

Judith Smith: As I was doing my research, one friend said, "No, no, no, you can't use that word. It's pejorative." But as I say in the book, this is how difficult is defined: It's something hard to do, it's something hard to manage, and it's something hard to understand…

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2022年2月16日 星期三

The T List: Five things we recommend this week

An art-filled hotel, a new Niki de Saint Phalle biography — and more.

Welcome to the T List, a newsletter from the editors of T Magazine. Each week, we share things we're eating, wearing, listening to or coveting now. Sign up here to find us in your inbox every Wednesday. And you can always reach us at tlist@nytimes.com.

VISIT THIS

A New York Hotel Showcasing Australian Aboriginal Art

A Grand Queen room at the Wall Street Hotel featuring a reproduction of Betty Muffler's "Ngangkari Ngura (Healing Country)."Courtesy of the Wall Street Hotel

By Michaela Trimble

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In the late 18th century, the Tontine Building, on Manhattan's Wall Street, was a tavern and coffeehouse — and the site of the New York Stock Exchange. Next month, the onetime trading center will reopen as the Wall Street Hotel, a 180-room boutique whose current owners, the Paspaleys, an Australian pearl production family, hope to make it more of a cultural hub. When it came to choosing art for the hotel, they partnered with the APY Art Centre Collective, an Indigenous-led organization dedicated to promoting Australian Aboriginal art. Examples of commissioned works — among them prints of paintings inspired by constellations by Matjangka Norris and layered land- and dreamscapes by Betty Muffler, who favors black and red ocher — appear throughout. After taking a self-guided tour, guests can have a cappuccino or cocktail in the all-day lounge, which is appointed with plush velvet seating, or explore the Financial District by complimentary Vélosophy bike. Rooms from $499, thewallsthotel.com.

COVET THIS

A Milliner's Collaboration With a Texan Bootmaker

Looks from Nick Fouquet's collaboration with Lucchese.Diego Vourakis

By Tilly Macalister-Smith

T Contributor

The Los Angeles milliner Nick Fouquet was researching cowboy boots and pondering an expansion into footwear when he received a call from Lucchese, the revered Texas boot brand founded in 1883, about collaborating. "It was very serendipitous — a sign," says Fouquet, who created headpieces for fashion houses Givenchy and Rochas before launching his own line a decade ago. And the partnership made sense: Both brands champion homegrown craftsmanship while aiming to update the idea of Americana. "There are an enormous number of similarities in the anatomy and construction, too. We have band blocks; they have lasts," says Fouquet, who visited Lucchese's archives in El Paso and saw lasts made for John Wayne, Gregory Peck and Jane Russell. In the end, the labels gave some classic Lucchese models a '70s spin, coming up with eight new styles including stacked-heel boots in topstitched leather and tonal suede and snappy two-tone loafers, as well as a handful of printed silk neckerchiefs and (of course) cowboy-inspired hats. And yet, Fouquet promises, "the pieces will be as much at home on the streets of Paris as on a ranch." Accessories from $240; footwear from $895, nickfouquet.com and lucchese.com.

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A Peek Into the Colorful Mind of Niki de Saint Phalle

Niki de Saint Phalle's "Californian Diary (Queen Califia)" (1994), published in "What Is Now Known Was Once Only Imagined: An (Auto)biography of Niki de Saint Phalle" by Nicole Rudick, Siglio, 2022. Courtesy Niki Charitable Art Foundation

By Erik Morse

T Contributor

Nicole Rudick's illustrated biography of nouveau réalisme artist Niki de Saint Phalle, "What Is Now Known Was Once Only Imagined," takes its title from a (perhaps intentionally) misquoted snippet of William Blake's "The Marriage of Heaven and Hell" (1790) that appears in one of Saint Phalle's typically rococo doodles. The line is also the perfect tag for the provocateur's particular brand of 20th-century aestheticism. "I would spend my life questioning," she wrote in a 1992 note addressed to her dead mother. "I would fall in love with the question mark." Such voracious curiosity led to her various autodidactic pursuits as a painter, draftsperson, sculptor — she is probably best known for her Gaudí-inspired installation, "The Tarot Garden," in Pescia Fiorentina, Tuscany — writer, filmmaker, gardener and perfumer. In her subtitle, Rudick (who has contributed to T) refers to the book as "an (auto)biography," as it is comprised almost entirely of hundreds of Saint Phalle's colorful sketches and a trove of her letters, essays and marginalia, in which the artist rhapsodizes on, among other things, adolescent love (she met her future husband, the writer Harry Mathews, at age 11), mental illness and the harlequin fantasies that pervaded her daily life. The result is an intimate scrapbook of the life of one of the century's most inventive artists. $45, sigliopress.com.

SEE THIS

A New Gallery on the Upper East Side

From left: Jo Messer's "She has something to do with his sense of humor" (2021); Shannon Cartier Lucy's "God is Gorgeous" (2018); Tamo Jugeli's "Untitled" (2020).Emily Knecht, courtesy of Polina Berlin Gallery

By Will Fenstermaker

T Contributor

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Having cut her teeth at such influential galleries as Paula Cooper and Paul Kasmin, Polina Berlin is now opening her own, on Manhattan's Upper East Side. With a leafy backyard garden and abundant natural light, the 2,000-square-foot space, once the parlor floor of a townhouse, retains its homey feel. And this is fitting since Berlin hopes the gallery will foster close bonds. "The artists in Paula's program have such admiration for each other and push each other to ignite new ideas," says Berlin. "It would be very satisfying to have that happen in my space." The gallery's inaugural show, titled "Emotional Intelligence" and opening next week, features various riffs on kinship. It includes work by 10 artists, including a painting of three semiabstract nudes by Loie Hollowell and another of a figure holding an umbrella that reads "God is Gorgeous" by Shannon Cartier Lucy. Berlin sees the show as a kind of mission statement. "These artists are so sensitive to how people are treated," she says. "And if I can in some modest way make the art world better for the people I work with, then I feel the accountability to do that." "Emotional Intelligence" runs from Feb. 22 to March 26, polinaberlingallery.com.

BUY THIS

A Destination for Weekend Home Projects

From left: Vessels by Fort Standard Objects, lamps by In Common With and Hannah Bigeleisen and a stool by Another Country; a seating area with Faye Toogood for Calico wallpaper, a mirror and chair by Another Country and a table by Fern. The sink is by Kast Concrete Basins and the faucet is from Waterworks.Sean Davidson

When it comes to sourcing supplies for small home projects — retiling a backsplash, say, or papering a single wall — it can feel like your options are either Home Depot (practical but not necessarily inspiring) or a brand's showroom (obscure pricing, too many choices). It's partly for this reason that Sarah Zames and Colin Stief, of the Brooklyn-based design studio General Assembly, are opening their first store, Assembly Line, in Boerum Hill this week. The warm, light-flooded space is laid out like a home, with inviting living and dining areas, and filled with furniture and fixtures by designers whom Zames and Stief admire — upholstered oak stools by Vonnegut/Kraft, elegant chrome cabinet knobs by Fort Standard Objects — as well as a tightly edited selection of materials for renovations, which includes Calico wallpapers printed with a range of nature-inspired motifs, glossy zellige tiles from Clé and lime wash paints from Bauwerk. Unlike in many showrooms, every item in the store is clearly priced, and Zames and Stief are available for consultations by appointment. A DIYer might easily come in to look at an Elitis fabric sample but leave with a new bedside lamp — like the great options, with globby, hand-formed stone bases, by the Brooklyn maker Hannah Bigeleisen — or a plan to reimagine an entire room. 373 Atlantic Avenue, assemblyline.co.

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This Season, Dramatic Duality Reigns

From left: Max Mara coat, $1,990, maxmara.com; Atsuko Kudo bodysuit, about $412, atsukokudo.com; Andreas Kronthaler for Vivienne Westwood skirt, price on request, viviennewestwood.com; Botter hood and goggles, price on request, botter.world; Vex latex gloves, $80, and stockings, $130, vexclothing.com; and Prada shoes, price on request, prada.com. Versace dress, $2,975, versace.com; Atsuko Kudo top, about $425; Botter hood and goggles, price on request; Elissa Poppy gloves, $87, elissapoppy.com; Vex latex stockings, $130; and Prada shoes, price on request.Photograph by Luis Alberto Rodriguez. Styled by Jacob K

By pairing unexpected textures, like feathers and latex, with fluorescent colors and voluminous forms, the season's eye-catching fashion embraces the many sides of us all. See the full story at tmagazine.com, and follow us on Instagram.

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