2021年9月25日 星期六

Is “Baby” Really a Trending Baby Name?

A thorough investigation.
A roundup of new guidance and stories from NYT Parenting.
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Perhaps you read the piece in The Cut earlier this year about two influencers who were reportedly feuding because they both named their babies "Baby." They can now take their "niche drama" national, because according to the baby-naming website Nameberry, Baby could be a trending name for newborns in 2022. It's one of a handful of "playful" names the site's editors believe parents could be drawn to, because of the darkness of the past couple years. Other names in this category include Moxie, Trixie and Dovie.

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I really wanted to know why someone would name their baby Baby, beyond the "Dirty Dancing" reference cited by one of the influencers in the feud (though that character's real name is Frances). So I called up Pamela Redmond, the co-creator of Nameberry, to ask her how they pick their slate of trending names. "We look at the data of views of our name pages, and look for what names are making the biggest leaps upwards as to where they were last year," Ms. Redmond told me. "We also check those against the names that made the biggest leaps up the year before."

Ms. Redmond said we won't know until the Social Security Administration puts out its baby name data for 2022 whether or not the search trend on Nameberry took hold for real. I asked her if "Baby" was maybe just a place-holder that parents put on their kid's birth certificate when they were being hustled out of the hospital, only to change it later. Ms. Redmond said that used to happen more decades ago, but probably doesn't happen as much now; officials may have been the ones filling in "Baby" when a parent had left the name blank.

For what it's worth, I looked up the Social Security Administration data on the name Baby, and for girls it peaked in 1995, when 308 female babies were named Baby. For boys, 1994 was the year of Baby babies, with 373. According to Nameberry, the name "Cozy", which peaked in 1965, is also making a comeback. Please keep me posted if any of you name your children Cozy Baby.

Here's what else is happening this week: Sarah Dougher writes about the joys and challenges of having two children in her 40s. Christina Caron has tips for how to keep your teen's use of social media healthy, not toxic. Several New York Times reporters fanned out across the country to find out how kids are faring back at school this fall. And Emma Dibdin has seven podcasts for parents who need a break.

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Finally, as a follow-up to Claire Cain Miller's excellent article about how day cares are struggling to find and keep workers in a pandemic world, I'm working on a story about parents who cannot get adequate care for their children. Is the day care wait list in your area 200 families long? Did the only after care option in your school district close down? I want to hear from you: email me here.

Thanks for reading!

— Jessica Grose, columnist, NYT Parenting

THIS WEEK IN NYT PARENTING

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I Had My First Child at 45. Here's What I Learned.

A little empathy goes a long way, and people are going to judge.

By Sarah Dougher

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Worried About Your Teen on Social Media? Here's How to Help.

For kids, developing a healthier relationship with Instagram and other platforms can be tricky.

By Christina Caron

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Glimpses of How Pandemic America Went Back to School

Across the country, students are returning to classes. We connected with hundreds of them to see how they — along with teachers, administrators and parents — are coping.

By The New York Times

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Irene Rinaldi

7 Podcasts for Parents Who Need a Break

These shows will provide a sense of community and useful tips for just about any parenting scenario.

By Emma Dibdin

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'Can't Compete': Why Hiring for Child Care Is a Huge Struggle

The Biden administration is trying to address a problem with private child care that has worsened during the pandemic.

By Claire Cain Miller

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Tiny Victories

Parenting can be a grind. Let's celebrate the tiny victories.

My 2-year-old started refusing to change out of P.J.s in the morning, and her tantrums were wearing us all out. So now I pick an outfit, visit her at the breakfast table and talk up the day's clothes like a hype man. "It's your BIRD SHIRT! With your GREEN PANTS! How lucky are you?" By the time she's done eating, she's levitating with excitement and can't wait to get dressed. Mia Lipman Irwin, Seattle

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2021年9月24日 星期五

The Daily: To Evacuate or Not To Evacuate?

We talked to those who braved the Dixie fire themselves.

This week on The Daily, Annie Correal, a staff reporter for The Times, introduced us to some members of her family who had made a difficult and controversial choice. Despite mandatory evacuation orders in parts of California that were threatened by a huge wildfire this summer, they chose to stay behind and try to fight the blaze. Many of you wrote in with thoughts about the episode, and with questions for Annie. Here are some of her answers, which have been edited and condensed for clarity.

Heather Kingdon took measures to combat the Dixie wildfire as it threatened her family's home in Genesee, Calif., last month.Christian Monterrosa for The New York Times

Who were the people who stayed behind during the Dixie fire, defying evacuation orders, and why did you decide to report on them?

Fire authorities always emphasize the importance of evacuating when the orders come down. They say staying endangers lives, including the lives of firefighters, who might have to go in and rescue someone. Not everyone is in a good position to defend their home, and even when they are, it's extraordinarily risky, especially in this era of so-called megafires. These fires are exhibiting really extreme behavior, and the many tactics that wildland firefighters use to contain big fires like this have often been failing.

After the Dixie fire destroyed the Gold Rush-era town of Greenville on Aug. 4, evacuation orders came down for much of Indian Valley, where my family lives, in the northern Sierra Nevada. Most people left, but some three or four dozen decided to stay behind, hoping to defend their property. They included the area's handful of cattle-ranching families, Native American people from the Maidu tribe living on ancestral land, a few business owners and people hoping their presence would help save uninsured homes. What they had in common was that they were not wealthy and went back a long time in the area.

Are there people in other rural areas in these fires' paths who aren't evacuating either?

According to Amanda Stasiewicz, an environmental studies professor at the San Jose State University Wildfire Interdisciplinary Research Center, people in some ranching and agricultural communities around the Western U.S. are also opting to "stay and defend," as fires spread, and in some states, ranchers are getting certified to do various firefighting duties. In Australia, there has been a "Prepare, Stay and Defend or Leave Early" policy, which offers people an alternative to evacuating, unlike in the U.S., where the policy is "Ready, Set, Go!" (Australia's policy came under scrutiny after a number of deaths, though.) Not to evacuate is dangerous, and most people think there is no safe way to do it. But it is worth reporting on, I think, as more and more rural residents — and others, of course — will be confronted with fires in years to come.

What was it like for those who stayed behind in Indian Valley?

It wasn't easy. The National Guard set up checkpoints. Once you left, you couldn't come back. There were long power outages. No trash collection; no mail. Something happened to a fiber-optic cable, so there was no Wi-Fi, either. It was easy for people to feel cut off, and frustrated, too, as they saw resources like fire engines and aircraft come and go, sent to new fronts on the giant fire.

Why was there frustration toward firefighters?

On the ground, locals were collaborating with firefighters in various ways. And yet in the episode, you can hear my relative Vanessa's frustration with firefighters. As I mention in the piece, this was in part frustration with how firefighting resources were being diverted, often to areas with bigger populations and more infrastructure, which is the policy of the U.S. Forest Service.

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By mid-August, resources were stretched very, very thin. There were around 100 large, uncontrolled fires in the American West, and the Dixie fire alone had spread to cover 1,000 square miles. Many of the choices on where to send resources were being made from afar, based on fire behavior and what was being threatened. But for these rural residents, it was easy to feel vulnerable to those choices.

Why did you feel it was important in this episode to highlight the perspectives of people who chose not to evacuate?

Vanessa and people like her were also frustrated by how they had been depicted by the media. The media, for good reason, tends to echo the authorities' message about the importance of evacuating. This is an important public service, but portraits of people who don't evacuate, a staple of disaster coverage, can leave those who stay behind feeling misrepresented or like they've been reduced to a stereotype. I thought it was important to inquire about my family's reasons. And maybe in the process, to question how we in the media cover this issue.

How did it feel to report on your family? What challenges did you run into?

This was a challenging assignment. There was the hazardous air quality, for one, and it was taxing to always be on alert for changes in the fire's direction. It was also hard to see my relatives under so much stress and not to know if they would be OK.

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At the same time, I knew I was there as a journalist. My job was to report on what they did and the consequences, not to get them to evacuate — not that I would have been able to anyway. It was also challenging to see these places from my childhood endangered, or, in some cases, already destroyed. This was difficult, to say the least. Every place I went, I was reporting, but also saying goodbye.

Talk to Annie on Twitter: @anniecorreal

The loss of Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg, one year on

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Last Saturday was the first anniversary of the death of Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg. Last year, The Daily covered her death with a two-part series focused on her legacy. "When you look back at the whole arc of her life and work, there's really no single person who's accomplished what she has for women — for men, too — in the notion of equality that has been now so baked into our legal structure," Linda Greenhouse, a contributing Opinion writer, explained on the show.

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But her legacy is something living — something that evolves with every ruling since her death. Below, Adam Liptak, our Supreme Court correspondent, shares a reflection on the continued impact of the justice's passing.

It was the summer of 2013. President Barack Obama was in the early months of his second term and calls for Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg to retire were mounting. She was 80 and had survived two bouts with cancer, and liberals were nervous. If a Republican won the presidency in 2016, they said, Justice Ginsburg's legacy, notably including her support for abortion rights, could be in peril.

I asked her about those concerns in an interview in her chambers. She said the liberals' fears were misplaced. "There will be a president after this one, and I'm hopeful that that president will be a fine president," she said.

Justice Ginsburg said her decision about whether to retire would turn on her health and not on who would appoint her successor. She did not seem worried that a new justice would tilt the balance of the court and upend her accomplishments.

"I don't see that my majority opinions are going to be undone," she said. "I do hope that some of my dissents will one day be the law."

She died seven years later, on Sept. 18, 2020. President Donald J. Trump, in the final months of his presidency, named Justice Amy Coney Barrett to replace her.

This month, Justice Barrett voted with the majority in a 5-to-4 decision refusing to block a Texas law that banned most abortions after six weeks. Had Justice Ginsburg or a liberal successor been on the court, the result would almost surely have been different.

Last month, I interviewed Justice Stephen G. Breyer, who is 83 and the senior member of what is now the court's three-member liberal wing. "There are many considerations," he said when I asked him about his own retirement plans.

Talk to Adam on Twitter: @adamliptak

On The Daily this week

Tuesday: Inside the Times investigation that forced the U.S. military to acknowledge that a drone attack in Afghanistan, which killed 10 innocent civilians, was a deadly error.

Wednesday: Why has the U.S.-British deal to sell military technology to Australia infuriated the French?

Thursday: Ahead of next year's midterm elections, New York Democrats are considering gerrymandering — a tactic that is usually a preserve of the Republican Party.

Friday: As Germans head to the polls this weekend, they face the question: Who can replace Chancellor Angela Merkel as leader?

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