2020年2月1日 星期六

Just When You Thought Potty-Training Was Over…

Psych! Also: Kobe Bryant’s podcast for kids, “momcations” and more.
A roundup of new guidance and stories from NYT Parenting.

Most children need time, not special interventions, to eventually stay dry overnight. If you have a toddler who made it through daytime potty training only to throw in the diaper at bedtime, don’t miss our new guide to dealing with bed-wetting at night.

In the wake of Kobe Bryant’s death, we published Phoebe Lett’s ode to his podcast for kids “The Punies.” Jancee Dunn told us how to navigate a family emergency, and A. Rochaun Meadows-Fernandez wrote about the “adultification” she faced as a young black girl that she strives to protect her daughter from today. Our friends in the Travel section wrote about “momcations,” which are apparently a thing. And, Sarah DiGregorio wrote about how feeding became a struggle after her daughter was born 12 weeks early. “Suddenly, so many mothering clichés made sense to me. I wanted to feed her; I wanted my sense of control and competence back,” wrote Sarah, in a piece for us based on her new book “Early: An Intimate History of Premature Birth and What It Teaches Us About Being Human.”

Thanks for reading!

— Jessica Grose, lead editor, NYT Parenting

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Marc Rosenthal

How to Stop Your Child’s Bed-Wetting at Night

Just when you thought potty training was over…

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Sam Island

In a Medical Emergency, a Family Plan Pays Off

Be prepared and avoid a wild scramble when a sudden illness or accident strikes.

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via Sarah DiGregorio

Feeding a Preemie Means Swallowing Your Pride

“Most days, I let go of the idea that I can nourish her the way I imagined I could. I have tried to adjust my hopes: I want to help her find her own enjoyment, in food or elsewhere.”

K. L. Ricks

Why Won’t Society Let Black Girls Be Children?

“How can I preserve my daughter’s childhood while preparing her for a world that may judge her prematurely?"

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An Ode to Kobe Bryant’s Podcast for Kids, ‘The Punies’

The athlete made a podcast to give teamwork and leadership insights to kids, in a way they’d want to hear them.

At The Resort at Pelican Hill, a five-star retreat in Newport Beach, Calif., customers booking the momcation package receive a $50 spa credit and other perks.Courtesy of the Resort at Pelican Hill

Momcations. It’s a Thing.

“I don’t need a massage or fancy dinner. I just need no one touching me while I lay horizontal and binge on TV.”

Tiny Victories

Parenting can be a grind. Let’s celebrate the tiny victories.
My 15-month-old despises having to lie down for his diaper change, and changing him while he’s standing is tricky to say the least. I eventually repurposed a child’s floor piano as a changing pad, and now my baby loves squirming on the ground making music while I change his diaper!—Mudassir Ali, Chicago

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Should I Pretend to 
Love My Stepchildren?

I do not have any real feelings for them.

I married into my husband’s family decades ago. We have one child together, whom I adore. The rest of the children are from his previous marriages. I get along superficially with all of them. I make conversation and act interested in what they have to say. I tell them I love them when they say it to me. Generally, they have treated me very well, and I think they actually do love me. But I do not have any real feelings for them. I have never wanted much contact with people. Having interactions with all of them over these years has been painful for me. I fantasize about severing contact with his family once my husband dies. Is my pretending to care about them unethical?

Read the Ethicist’s response here.

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